Quoting Miss Julie:" you need to remember you are YOU. not just mommy and wife. you have an identity and it is what makes ... [snip!] ... start small and work your way up. go on a date with your hubby! something. you NEED you time. its also VERY VERY VERY normal."
Quoting Bellabug's Mama:" You guys are right. But I can't bring myself to leave my daughter with anyone. Not even her grandparents. ... [snip!] ... a social butterfly. I would enjoy going out with my husband without the baby but then I would feel like I have to hurry home."