Getting lonely. -Vent-

I am pregnant with my first. I am fresh out of high school and only 18. Everyone always knew me as the crazy party girl and I had so many friends.Now that I am pregnant all of those friends have seemed to "disappear". I am both sad and disappointed to know people I thought of as family have decided to completely cut me off as a friend because I was keeping my baby. Its just sad and frustrating to sit at home all day and hear about people talking trash about me because I decided to grow up a little faster. Am I just being sensative or does anyone feel the same?

Happend to me too and I was 22.
I think you really know who your true friends and family are when you get pregnant.
dont worrie and just try and focus on you and your LO.
(big hugs)

Quoting Jordan Gonzales:" I am pregnant with my first. I am fresh out of high school and only 18. Everyone always knew me as the ... [snip!] ... talking trash about me because I decided to grow up a little faster. Am I just being sensative or does anyone feel the same?"

It happens, and now you can see that they were never truly your friends, you were just someone fun to party with at the time to them. Baby gaga helped me a lot when I got pregnant. I was 20, but still in the same position as you. It happens to A LOT of women when they get pregnant. So I made friends on here, and started hanging out with girls I knew who were also pregnant or had kids.
It will get better :-)

My pregnancy has bought my friends closer.

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention family! 2 of my cousins also got pregnant at the same time as me, so that was really cool. Also being pregnant brought me a lot closer to my parents.

this happens to most people unfortunately ... I was 28 when I got pregnant and my friends fled like I had the plague

Im.sorry, it happened to me too. I got pregnant with my son at 22 and my bestfriends completely abandoned me. It only got worse as my son grew and I got pregnant with my second son. Im sorry to hear its happening to you but im hear to talk if you need a friend.

Im 19 i lost all my friends . . .even my friend that has a son the same age as my daughter   but i gained my family back

I'm 16 and 6 and 1/2 months pregnant with my son. Lost who I thought was my best friend over it. A lot of other people too, even family. You're not alone. True friends stick with you.

Quoting Jordan Gonzales:" I am pregnant with my first. I am fresh out of high school and only 18. Everyone always knew me as the ... [snip!] ... talking trash about me because I decided to grow up a little faster. Am I just being sensative or does anyone feel the same?"

We have the same background, I just turned 18 in January and graduated high school in May. I left all of my old friends behind, even my "brother" who was one of my best friends because he didn't support my decision to keep my son. It was my choice because I want a better, healthier future for my son. I technically graduated high school in December, so I did my first semester of college at the junior college here in my town. That one semester was a whole lot better than all my 3 & 1/2 years in high school. People were more mature and there were other women in my classes who were young mothers who were more than happy to be my friend and help me out with stuff from classwork to baby and everything in between.

You won't be lonely forever. Just situate yourself around successful positive people who support you and your decision. A baby is a blessing.

If you ever want someone to talk to, feel free to message me. It may seem tough at this moment, but just remember everything will get better.