They are not making this FUN!!!!! :(

  Im so upset and sad, Im planning on having a Gender Reveal Baby Shower to reveal to everyone including me what the baby is. Well my bf wants to know cause its his first, his mom wants to know cause its her first grandbaby and my mom wants to know because she is gonna decorate the nursery. so I figured 3 is fine.

But then my bf is like ill only tell certain people, well those certain people will tell others and it wont be a surprise, esp cause stuff gets spread on facebook. And they are taking the fun away from it all. Idk how to get him and his family to cooperate with it and just keep it a secret. Cause if i see people showing up with more pink bags or blue ones ill know someone spread the work and ill be heart broken  

Quoting Tattooed Mommie:"   Im so upset and sad, Im planning on having a Gender Reveal Baby Shower to reveal to everyone including ... [snip!] ... Cause if i see people showing up with more pink bags or blue ones ill know someone spread the work and ill be heart broken  "

Tell him that if he does that you will beat his ass.

Trick them.. lol
I think that's awesome what you're doing.

A gender reveal baby shower would be awesome!

I told my SO as long as the fetus was in my uterus I got to make the decisions and that no one was allowed to discuss it's sex until I gave them permission. lol. But we all found out at 16 weeks.

Im very excited to be doing it, and its hard when everyone but my mom wants to tell certain people which will lead to everyone knowing then me finding out through text or facebook. And i understand its his first and he will be excited but he said this is our last baby, and i want it to be a fun co-ed reveal baby shower.

Which he is against the reveal he said the guys can just sit in the back and drink.

No Fun  

Quoting Tattooed Mommie:" Im very excited to be doing it, and its hard when everyone but my mom wants to tell certain people which ... [snip!] ... fun co-ed reveal baby shower. Which he is against the reveal he said the guys can just sit in the back and drink. No Fun  "

Tell him they can go out and drink whenever. And that everyone else will find out when you do, at the gender reveal party.