Quoting megiemoo:" the last time he got in contact with me was 7 1/2 months ago, the last things he said to me were threatening. i wouldnt feel safe with my baby in his arms"
Have you even had your baby? He doesn't have to talk to you or be in any kind of contact with you during pregnancy, that's not his job. His job is to be a father to this child, and he seems to be trying. It's not your choice if he's a father or not, he can take you to court and get visitation. But, I think you should be civil and allow him to parent without the fight.