Parents Rights

He has rights. If he wants to see his kid, let him.

Yes, he has rights. He's the father. Of course you should allow him to be a dad and see his baby. If you shut him out intentionally, you're hurting your guys' child in the end.

He has rights, but they will make him pay child support.

Quoting A❤T=P[Baking]:" He has rights. If he wants to see his kid, let him."

the last time he got in contact with me was 7 1/2 months ago, the last things he said to me were threatening. i wouldnt feel safe with my baby in his arms

Quoting megiemoo:" the last time he got in contact with me was 7 1/2 months ago, the last things he said to me were threatening. i wouldnt feel safe with my baby in his arms"

Its his baby to. If you feel uncomfortable have someone there when he visits with baby

Quoting megiemoo:" the last time he got in contact with me was 7 1/2 months ago, the last things he said to me were threatening. i wouldnt feel safe with my baby in his arms"

Wow old is the baby?

He has rights. I'm not sure how things work in the UK but I'm sure he'd be allowed to petition for visitation.

Quoting megiemoo:" the last time he got in contact with me was 7 1/2 months ago, the last things he said to me were threatening. i wouldnt feel safe with my baby in his arms"

Have you even had your baby? He doesn't have to talk to you or be in any kind of contact with you during pregnancy, that's not his job. His job is to be a father to this child, and he seems to be trying. It's not your choice if he's a father or not, he can take you to court and get visitation. But, I think you should be civil and allow him to parent without the fight.

So you knew he was a dead beat dad before getting pregnant?

You can request supervised visitation.

he has rights. he'll fight you for em if he wants to badly enough. but take it from a single mom let your babys father be in their life.

Quoting Jesus Christ:" So you knew he was a dead beat dad before getting pregnant?"

nope, he was the nicest guy going until we found out i was pregnant. Then he changed, i dont know what happened.

Quoting megiemoo:" nope, he was the nicest guy going until we found out i was pregnant. Then he changed, i dont know what happened."

But he didn't take care of his other kids. Why would you want to have a kid with a guy who already has kids he doesn't care for???

I can understand why you don't want him to be involved. If he was threatening, request supervised visitation and don't let him see the baby alone or with just you there. Some women don't understand, because they haven't been in this position, but I have. My BD threatened to kill me and smother my daughter, he also threatened(while I was pregnant) to break in and steal her if I didn't give her to him the day she was born. Trust your gut. If you are keeping the baby from him purely because you don't like him, that isn't right. But, if you really think he could be a danger to the baby, keep him away until it goes to court.

Feel free to PM me if you need to.