Quoting Joell'sMommy:" I really dont need any judging or anyone telling me what I should or shouldnt do, I just want to know ... [snip!] ... now. I was wondering if you all would take your child so that the dad can see them when they are at least a month or two?"
I would get him vaccinated first, also depending on how long he will be in prison. If its only for a few months, id wait it out til he got home if its years, itd take my child to see him at least once. People make mistakes, doesnt mean they should be deprived of seeing their children. I have been there and i took my son to see him a few times and i didnt feel like a bad mother bc of it.