re: VAGINA ISSUES-Does it Stretch?

Quoting Jackie Burkhart ♡:" Of course! Opt for a major surgery in the name of your tight vagina. Nobody like a loosey goosey! "

this made me lol.

OP, if you're really worried, do Kiegels. I don't think I spelled that right. Someone correct me.  

Quoting ChocolateTy:" Thanks Guys for your advice! Most people say not to have a Csection because it's very painful and the ... [snip!] ... all! Everyone is different! I also wanted to get a Csection because I was in labor for almost 3 days and it was VERY painful!"

There are some who labour for multiple weeks. I was in labour for a little over 5 days. Still no need for a c-section though.

Quoting kr.r:" There are some who labour for multiple weeks. I was in labour for a little over 5 days. Still no need for a c-section though."

FIVE DAYS? Oh NO! Thats horrible! I just really hope this time it's nice and quick, I know all pregnancies are different though! Thanks for the Good Lucks! I dont know why I'm soooo scared this time around, but I'm done, Im thinking about getting the ol' tubes tied as well!

I'm jealous of the women who comment on here and obviously didn't suffer a loose vajayjay after giving birth. My daughter was huge, I did lots of kegels during my pregnancy with her and after and it is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay different than before. It's reaaally bad. Since I had her, I need to have sex with someone who has lots of girth otherwise it's not even enough to get the guy off... Super embarrassing and I can't believe I just admitted that. Doesn't make me want to have a c-section, but it really makes me dread having this baby vaginally.   Don't mean to scare OP. Most people seem to be okay, I just got unlucky.  

Quoting Soon to be mom of 2!:" I'm jealous of the women who comment on here and obviously didn't suffer a loose vajayjay after giving ... [snip!] ... makes me dread having this baby vaginally.   Don't mean to scare OP. Most people seem to be okay, I just got unlucky.  "

Really? Are you serious? I asked my doc does it stretch, and she said it's going to stretch some! My last son was only 6 lb. so maybe thats why it didnt stretch! She told me to stop eating junk, so he'll be a normal size when I deliver, and it wont be so bad! I cant have sex w/ "BIG" guys, because it hurts soooo bad! :-/

As far as I can tell, I went back to normal after each one. I'm sure its not really completely normal.. because its only logical that there would be some difference between before labor and after.. but its close enough to normal that I never noticed a difference.. And my kids weren't particularly large, but they did have big heads (especially my first.. lol). .. and really, when it comes to pushing a baby out.. while there is a difference between a six pounder and a ten pounder, they're both still huge as far as things coming out your vagina go, lol.

Some vaginas get looser than others after a baby..that's why GYNs have different sized speculums to use during pap-smears.

It's a myth that your vagina won't be at least slightly looser than before.The entrance can be tighter due to stitches or scar-tissue but the inner walls are going to be farther apart.
If you stretch a rubber band enough times,it'll lose elasticity .The vagina's a lot like that.

There ARE "exercise" tools you can use when you do kegals.Look them up on amazon,find one that you're comfortable with.It'll help.