my bf broke up with me

My bf just broke up with me. For the dumbest reason ever! Seriously, so I have this friend who is in the military that I've known for like two years, his name is Jesse. Well he just got back from being on the east coast a few weeks ago and today he helped me bring my car from my uncle's hot rod shop to my house (I don't like to drive on the freeway and I haven't put in my new power steering pump yet so the car drifts a lot and I didn't want to deal with it). For some reason my bf hates Jesse. I have no idea why, he's never even met him...and it's really confusing to me because he thinks Jesse wants to sleep with me...Jesse refers to me as his little sister, and he's MARRIED. SO because I had Jesse drive my car for me back to my house I'm cheating on my bf...that's what he assumes. WTF? I would have had my bf drive my car but he was supposed to be at work today AND he has no license (it's suspended due to unpaid tickets and it was never even a full license it was his permit) and he's not an insured driver. SO he's trying to say that I'm being some skank ass hoe because another guy drove my car. It's so ridiculous that at this point I don't even care. Honestly it's a relief. I mean yeah it sucks and I'm upset but I'm so over all his bullshit. I asked him to come and meet Jesse if he was uncomfortable with the situation and he still has yet to do that...so in my book he's screwing himself. OH and get this, the other day I asked him why it was okay for him to talk to his female friends when I am not "supposed to" talk to my guy friends and his response was "Because I don't sleep with them". So he pretty much called me a slut, oh and for the record, I've never slept with any of my guy friends. EVER. And I don't really talk to any of my exes....so I have no idea wtf he's talking about.

So I am in the wrong here? Like honestly?

No he has some serious self esteem issues. He seems like a very jealous guy. Be careful...

no way hunnie! He sounds very insecure of himself. You are def in the right here, not him!

You are no wrong he isnt a really man! a really man would have found the truth and wouldnt have just blowed it up like that baby girl do it your self!

Quoting Cami's Mami:“ No he has some serious self esteem issues. He seems like a very jealous guy. Be careful...”

Yeash my mom was scared to leave me at my apt alone because she knows he'll come here and terrorize me. It's not even that he's mad at me, he's in a pissy mood because he can't get his stupid fucking truck smogged. NOT MY PROBLEM. If he comes here threatening me I'm leaving and going to a safe place (which is like a five minute drive from me) and then I'll get a temp restraining order if I have to.

Quoting Tiffany10092008:“ You are no wrong he isnt a really man! a really man would have found the truth and wouldnt have just blowed it up like that baby girl do it your self!”

I told him that this was all happening YESTERDAY. And he blew up on me about it today saying one of his friends with a license could have helped me. First of all, almost all of his friends are stoners and drunks and have DUI related incidences, they aren't insured, AND they're all spoiled little boys who drive BMWs and Audis...I seriously doubt that they could handle my car. It's a 1965 hotrod. And if it was such an issue he should have told me last night when I told him what was going to happen and he should have offered a solution then.

Quoting fierce:“ Yeash my mom was scared to leave me at my apt alone because she knows he'll come here and terrorize ... [snip!] ... and going to a safe place (which is like a five minute drive from me) and then I'll get a temp restraining order if I have to.”

I always worry when I see posts like this because when I was with my ex this is exactly how it started, then it progressed. His emotional / verbal abuse turned physical. Please take care of yourself I would hate to see another young woman be put in the same situation I was in.

he sounds like a winner  

Quoting Made In Italy♥:“ he sounds like a winner  ”

Yeah well I was in a stupid party phase and got pregnant from a hook up. My mistake...it's not like I planned to have a baby with him, I didn't plan for the condom not to work...if I had known that night that I would be choosing the father of my child I would have been just a little more selective. I've been trying to make it work because I don't want my baby not to have a daddy but at this point I'm feeling like he'll be better off just with me.

Quoting Cami's Mami:“ I always worry when I see posts like this because when I was with my ex this is exactly how it started, ... [snip!] ... turned physical. Please take care of yourself I would hate to see another young woman be put in the same situation I was in.”

Trust me I know what the signs are. I lived with an abusive guy in NY. I was 17 so CPS got involved because I accidentally "spilled" to my counselor that the guy choked me and almost killed me...I left him. And I worry too. I'm really frustrated with myself and just the situation in general.

jealous guys = BIG red flag..........look out for guys like that~!

Quoting fierce:“ Yeah well I was in a stupid party phase and got pregnant from a hook up. My mistake...it's not like ... [snip!] ... it work because I don't want my baby not to have a daddy but at this point I'm feeling like he'll be better off just with me.”

i wasn't trying to be rude to you . . i feel bad for you . . he's the dick . .

Quoting fierce:“ My bf just broke up with me. For the dumbest reason ever! Seriously, so I have this friend who is in ... [snip!] ... I don't really talk to any of my exes....so I have no idea wtf he's talking about. So I am in the wrong here? Like honestly?”

You don't need that crap so just stay strong...I go through the same kind of stuff and they are just insecure and we're better off w/out the shit!

Quoting Made In Italy♥:“ i wasn't trying to be rude to you . . i feel bad for you . . he's the dick . .”

Oh okay  . Yeah he is a dick...I don't know why I care so much about him.  

Quoting fierce:“ Yeah well I was in a stupid party phase and got pregnant from a hook up. My mistake...it's not like ... [snip!] ... it work because I don't want my baby not to have a daddy but at this point I'm feeling like he'll be better off just with me.”

I really know what you going thru there , I got knocked up the same way but it was a continous "hookup" , My bf on and off again of 5 years , was upset when he found out...GUYS get really insecure when you have asituation like this.. They feel like you cant be trusted what so ever. If he really loves you , he will realize that he's overreacting. You dont need to stress not healthy for you. Good Luck!