re: my bf broke up with me

Quoting Miss Brittany.:“ Some guys are just insecure no matter how devoted you are. I'm sorry. And looking at your pictures, you are beautiful. Things will get better mama.”

Thank you. I just don't even want to deal with it anymore. Any of it. I don't feel like he's going to change. I'm a fool for believing in him.

Quoting fierce:“ Thank you. I just don't even want to deal with it anymore. Any of it. I don't feel like he's going to change. I'm a fool for believing in him.”

You shouldn't feel like a fool for believing him. It's ok to believe what someone you loves tells you. It's his fault for not believing that there was nothing going on with you and your friend.

Quoting Miss Brittany.:“ You shouldn't feel like a fool for believing him. It's ok to believe what someone you loves tells you. It's his fault for not believing that there was nothing going on with you and your friend.”

I know. But seriously he's seen the guy, I mean he's like my brother, he calls me sis!!! And ew. EWWWWW. It would be like having a crush on my brother, it's just not possible at all. And even if he wasn't like my bro, he is soooo not my type...not even close!

Not saying that he is cheating or anything, but normally men/women who accuse their spouse of cheating are in fact cheating themselves and have a guilty conscience. Hopefully that is not the case, but he sounds like a dick anyways. =\.

Quoting Liz Marie:“ Not saying that he is cheating or anything, but normally men/women who accuse their spouse of cheating ... [snip!] ... fact cheating themselves and have a guilty conscience. Hopefully that is not the case, but he sounds like a dick anyways. =\.”

I think he's just paranoid because every other girl he's dated has cheated on him. But I know what you are saying and that thought has crossed my mind as well...

You have posted about what a jerk your BF is in the past. He is insecure and is taking that out on you.

He is immature and the truth is he is probably not going to grow up as fast as you want, and as fast as you need. I really think that in the end, as hard as it will be, you need to let him go. He can still be a part of your childs life without you having to be emotionally abused like you are being right now. It will be healthier for you, and healthier for you child.

Quoting fierce:“ I don't even feel beautiful anymore. Honestly I don't know why I can't let him go. I think I just need ... [snip!] ... need to force myself too. I think I think it's going to be hard and at first it might be but after a while I'll be happier.”

I know exactly how you feel mama. I don't feel anything anymore towards my bf. Like i'm just numb now, I can't really explain it. I just want to let him go but we've been together for so long that I can't. I feel you..pm me if you wanna talk.

Quoting fierce:“ My bf just broke up with me. For the dumbest reason ever! Seriously, so I have this friend who is in ... [snip!] ... I don't really talk to any of my exes....so I have no idea wtf he's talking about. So I am in the wrong here? Like honestly?”

He sounds really controling. Thats a bunch of BS, so your supposed to not talk to any males at all?
And he basically called you a slut? ugh forget him, he sounds insecure.

He sounds very immature! And you don't want someone like that especially bringing a baby into this world! If you ever need anything..i'm not sure where you're located but if you're in so cal let me know.  

Quoting Alyc716:“ He sounds very immature! And you don't want someone like that especially bringing a baby into this world! ... [snip!] ... a baby into this world! If you ever need anything..i'm not sure where you're located but if you're in so cal let me know.  ”

Yeah I live in Long Beach...where are you?

Quoting ♥Bellezza Puraϖ:“ He sounds really controling. Thats a bunch of BS, so your supposed to not talk to any males at all? And he basically called you a slut? ugh forget him, he sounds insecure.”

Yep pretty much. Not even a joke  

Quoting fierce:“ Yeah I live in Long Beach...where are you?”

I'm near west covina so you're about 35 mins away!

Quoting Alyc716:“ I'm near west covina so you're about 35 mins away!”

Oh yeah my mom used to work over in Covina.  

Quoting fierce:“ Oh yeah my mom used to work over in Covina.  ”

Oh cool! You should come to the meet up. Were gunna go to the aqarium I think

That is a dumb reason, he does sound really insecure. What I don't get is if he cares so much about you to be so jealous than why is he jumping at the chance to break up with you? It sounds to me like he will be regretting this decision or he wanted to break up but was too much of a pussy to admit it was because he wanted to so he had to make it your fault.