re: my bf broke up with me

Quoting fierce:“ Oh okay  . Yeah he is a dick...I don't know why I care so much about him.  ”

trust me i know what it's like girlfriend . .

Just remember that your child comes first. If you think he is going to be a bad influence on your child, then leave him. Like I always say...I'd rather my child be from a broken home than in one.

wow what a insecure asshole smh, if he wants to break up with you over somthing so stupid you desevre way better

Quoting Amanda ;]~:“ You don't need that crap so just stay strong...I go through the same kind of stuff and they are just insecure and we're better off w/out the shit!”

I just feel like shit. I'm not a slut, I mean yeah I hooked up with him but that was my first and ONLY random hookup and there was LOTS of alcohol involved. I'm not a promiscous girl. I'm not a cheater and I treat him way better than he'll ever deserve. He can break up with me all he wants. He's fucking himself. He'll never get anyone like me again and honestly I don't feel like trying again.

Quoting Cami's Mami:“ Just remember that your child comes first. If you think he is going to be a bad influence on your child, then leave him. Like I always say...I'd rather my child be from a broken home than in one.”

That's it. I don't want my son to see the way he treats me. I want him to respect women.

Don't take this the wrong way, but honestly if he's breaking up with you over a reason like this then it kind of seems like he's looking for a reason from what it sounds like...you're a beautiful girl and you're better off w/out him or his drama!

Quoting BaRbiie:“ I really know what you going thru there , I got knocked up the same way but it was a continous "hookup" ... [snip!] ... ever. If he really loves you , he will realize that he's overreacting. You dont need to stress not healthy for you. Good Luck!”

He knows he's wrong, but I don't feel like taking him back...he'll just do it again and again and again. He's not going to change  

Quoting fierce:“ That's it. I don't want my son to see the way he treats me. I want him to respect women.”

that's one of the main things i worry about having a boy, i want his father in his life but i want him to be raised to treat women right and so if his father's not that makes it hard.

Quoting Amanda ;]~:“ that's one of the main things i worry about having a boy, i want his father in his life but i want him to be raised to treat women right and so if his father's not that makes it hard.”

He already called and apologized to me for overreacting but then he called me again screaming with his mom screaming in the background. I'm not mad at her, I know he spun the story to make it seem like he has a right to be upset...but still, WTF? I'm just so tired. I don't have energy for all this bullshit anymore. And even more than that I want to feel loved. I want to feel valued.

Quoting fierce:“ He already called and apologized to me for overreacting but then he called me again screaming with his ... [snip!] ... tired. I don't have energy for all this bullshit anymore. And even more than that I want to feel loved. I want to feel valued.”

don't answer if he calls back

Quoting Amanda ;]~:“ Don't take this the wrong way, but honestly if he's breaking up with you over a reason like this then ... [snip!] ... like he's looking for a reason from what it sounds like...you're a beautiful girl and you're better off w/out him or his drama!”

I agree. That is actually what I was thinking.
It's sad that even though your friend was helping you, your bf couldn't understand that. He seems insecure in your relationship. You deserve better mama.

Quoting Miss Brittany.:“ I agree. That is actually what I was thinking. It's sad that even though your friend was helping you, ... [snip!] ... your friend was helping you, your bf couldn't understand that. He seems insecure in your relationship. You deserve better mama.”

I don't even know how he's so insecure. I'm so devoted to him and it's so obvious. I just feel exhuasted. I don't even feel emotions right now.

Quoting Amanda ;]~:“ don't answer if he calls back”

He can talk to my voicemail.  

Quoting Amanda ;]~:“ Don't take this the wrong way, but honestly if he's breaking up with you over a reason like this then ... [snip!] ... like he's looking for a reason from what it sounds like...you're a beautiful girl and you're better off w/out him or his drama!”

I don't even feel beautiful anymore. Honestly I don't know why I can't let him go. I think I just need to force myself too. I think I think it's going to be hard and at first it might be but after a while I'll be happier.

Quoting fierce:“ I don't even know how he's so insecure. I'm so devoted to him and it's so obvious. I just feel exhuasted. I don't even feel emotions right now.”

Some guys are just insecure no matter how devoted you are. I'm sorry.
And looking at your pictures, you are beautiful.
Things will get better mama.