re: PLEASE HELP! advice, support, answers!!!! Desperate!

Quoting Mamaloveee3:" of course.. i'm willing to do all of that. i'm not the type to live off the system and not do something ... [snip!] ... not do something with myself.. it would just be great help at first with all the bills and stuff. courses? like college course?"

I'm not judging. I got in a really bad spot financially and took help from the system for like 4 months, got back on my feet. Thats what its there for. Its just freaking crazy how exhausted you can get when you have a baby. I'm 26, about to have my second and I'm starting to get nervous LOL

Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" I'm not judging. I got in a really bad spot financially and took help from the system for like 4 months, ... [snip!] ... crazy how exhausted you can get when you have a baby. I'm 26, about to have my second and I'm starting to get nervous LOL"

yeah. i dont want to have to live with my parents till i'm 23, thats not something i want to teach my child.. to mooch off your parents as long as possible.. i want it to learn responsibility.

Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" I'm not judging. I got in a really bad spot financially and took help from the system for like 4 months, ... [snip!] ... crazy how exhausted you can get when you have a baby. I'm 26, about to have my second and I'm starting to get nervous LOL"

im scared too!!!! i got used to 1 child and doing for 1 im scared to throw in a second and DS will b 7 by the time DD is born so 7 yrs difference and im starting all over ahhhhhhhh

Quoting Virginia Bailey:" im scared too!!!! i got used to 1 child and doing for 1 im scared to throw in a second and DS will b 7 by the time DD is born so 7 yrs difference and im starting all over ahhhhhhhh"

hahah I know!! I'm wondering if I will feel like a rookie all over again or if its like riding a bike. I play with my friends LO's all the time but its different when its your own and you have to focus soooo much energy on the LO.