how to wean a 1 year old

my daughter just turned one on the 23rd. Im ready to wean... it hurts everytime she latches on now, really bad. im assuming it hurts now bc they are tender due to me being pregnant. anywho. she only nurses at bedtime, naptime, and morning if she wants to go back to sleep. ive tried to give her a cup but nothing works and im not one for just letting her cry   so what can i do? helppppp!

Can daddy put her to bed?

Quoting Kylees Mama:" Can daddy put her to bed?"

he does but if i dont she wakes up at 1am   and hes not here at naptime. she gets so mad she tries to lift my shirt up or pull it down. i give her the cup and she flips out even more lol

I used soft top zippy cups and as my son was nursing I would break his latch with my figure slip the cup in and my nipple out

honestly i cut my daughter off at 13 months pretty much cold turkey. i did only night feedings for a couple more nights then replaced that with a soothing bath and then a lullaby and lots of rocking. and honestly some nights i had to let her CIO but it worked out fine only took us like 1-6 days for her to get it and it was done  

My son pretty much completely weaned himself by 14 months. He is going to be 18 months on the 3rd and in the past 4 months he has tried to nurse a total of a dozen times maybe and I don't tell him no, I just let him and it lasts all of 5 seconds and he is done.

What do you give her in the cup? I started DS with sippy cups when he was 6 months and he took to it no problem. I started with water then did juice/water. At11 months I started doing cow milk and it took a little bit of offering to get him to take that. Try different sippy cups too. The first cup I got for my son he didn't want to take it(soft spout). I got a cup with a hard spout and he took that one. He only started taking the soft spout one after he weaned.

i have the same issue with my daughter she is 16 months and its soo hard she will scream and cry and try to get my shirt up i tried soft tip sippy cups and she wont take to it at all i swer she will not fall asleep till i take her on a car ride and when i get her to sleep with out the car ride she only sleeps like 1 to 2 hours and she hates the crib ! please help im on baby number two and i really need all this to stop.