Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:" I am so sorry for what you are going through. Its so hard to have someone taken from u so suddenly. ... [snip!] ... Can u maybe somehow give her a middle name that similar to your dads name? A way to honor him and the relationship u two had..."
Thank you, it really is too. And I'm sorry
Sometimes we wonder what's worse-knowing someone's going and watch them go downhill; or have no idea it's the last time you'll ever see them and the bam, they're gone
Either way there's no comparison, it's still a loved one
And I'll look for that, thank you
My mom's read all of her religious books about losing people, but I never thought I was ready. I think now I might be though. I need some sort of understanding for this.
And we tried, his name was Jeffrey Paul- not much to work with. No Jeff girl names and as much as I do want to honor him Paulina or Paula are just not my style and they don't go with any of our first name choices really. (I've tried but most of the names I like end in A so to me it has that repetitive sound
One way though is I just really want to have her have my last name, I'm not married and that way until I'm ready and get married, we'll both have his name still.