re: I absolutely hate

Quoting The Doctor:" Gotcha. Am I thinking of Planned Parenthood, specifically, that doesn't do late term? Well, anywho. At what week does it go from fetus to baby?"

Im pro choice. Hell I'm pro do whatever makes your vagina happy. Some clinics refuse late term abortions because of risks and the fact that its a two day procedure. I think medically fetus becomes baby once its considered viable. Thats just medically though. Others have a different approach.

Quoting Bethy-poodles:" Um... I've been happy this whole time. A little banter back and forth with myself and witless strangers ... [snip!] ... dampen my mood. Merely something to do while waiting for my bubble bath to finish filling up. But thank you for the concern. "

I said it in good spirits. I don't like your approach on things but, I wouldn't hope to dampen anyones mood.

Quoting The Doctor:" Is it more "acceptable" or whatever word you want to use, for women to get multiple early abortions ... [snip!] ... what I'm getting at is.......... it's fine to not agree with how someone uses abortion. But where IS the "line"? Is there one?"

I mean i understand things happen and people sometimes dont have a choice but how many times can a person say oops before its thought that they are doing this purposely. I have known women to do it early and ive know people to do it late. IMHO its worst to do it late bc at that point that baby couldve survived born prematurely. I dont base my opinion on a person that may have run into hard times and done this once maybe even twice but 8-10 its ridiculous and imo nasty. Some women actually brag about these things. I felt heavy hearted about having my already dead unborn baby removed this way but some women just do it without remorse.

Quoting proudlypreggers:" Lol i lived in the PJs for 6 months and i had to go. Its not for me. The things you see and hear are ... [snip!] ... a new one and yes it wont change. Idc about it being in TDC thats their opinion of my post although mines differs from theirs"

Eh...I don't like bullies.. not saying that about the women currently posting but just in general. I really really do. Got a special place in my heart for them.

Quoting Oncemore:" Im pro choice. Hell I'm pro do whatever makes your vagina happy. Some clinics refuse late term abortions ... [snip!] ... I think medically fetus becomes baby once its considered viable. Thats just medically though. Others have a different approach."

I agree with you. I am 100% pro-choice, and contrary to what it may seem, I (PERSONALLY) feel that it's better to prevent a pregnancy than to get an abortion.

But I do see the OP as judgmental towards women who feel differently, or may be in a different circumstance, and feel that even IF they are getting multiple abortions, it may still be what's right for them in that moment. That's why I see it as drama. It wasn't "I will not get multiple abortions because I don't feel it's right", it was "I absolutely hate so called women who get multiple abortions"...

Quoting Oncemore:" Eh...I don't like bullies.. not saying that about the women currently posting but just in general. I really really do. Got a special place in my heart for them."

Me either i laugh at bullies tho. Its funny to me. I mean if i was more of a sensitive person id care and change my stance like some of the other young ladies on here but i feel how i feel and no one is going to change that. Its called MY opinion for a reason.

Quoting Oncemore:" I said it in good spirits. I don't like your approach on things but, I wouldn't hope to dampen anyones mood. "

Meh, you're all good. I'm overly grumpy due to the fact it feels as though my body has been run over by thirty semi-trucks. This pregnancy is not being nice to me.

Quoting proudlypreggers:" I mean i understand things happen and people sometimes dont have a choice but how many times can a person ... [snip!] ... I felt heavy hearted about having my already dead unborn baby removed this way but some women just do it without remorse."

I know this hits you in an emotional soft spot, and I'm sorry for your loss.

But, I honestly feel as though you're taking your hurt from your past, and letting it cloud your judgement, to some extent. Just because someone gets multiple abortions doesn't mean they're heartless, and anyone that does it without remorse probably realizes that it's the right thing for them, at that point. No matter if they've had multiple abortions or not, that person is pregnant, and must make the choice to continue with the pregnancy or abort. And I would much rather someone abort than have a child that they do not want and will not care for and love properly, that's the way I see it.

Quoting The Doctor:" I agree with you. I am 100% pro-choice, and contrary to what it may seem, I (PERSONALLY) feel that it's ... [snip!] ... multiple abortions because I don't feel it's right", it was "I absolutely hate so called women who get multiple abortions"..."

Although yes i agree i couldve gone about it a different way, it still doesnt change the fact of what i was trying to get across plus it was a rant. I was tired of hearing it so expressed how i felt.

Quoting proudlypreggers:" Although yes i agree i couldve gone about it a different way, it still doesnt change the fact of what i was trying to get across plus it was a rant. I was tired of hearing it so expressed how i felt."

Yes, I understand.

But, just as it's emotional for you, I'm sure it's emotional to many other women. Yaknow? Most of these get sent to TDC, despite how they're presented (from what I've seen).

Quoting The Doctor:" I know this hits you in an emotional soft spot, and I'm sorry for your loss. But, I honestly feel as ... [snip!] ... rather someone abort than have a child that they do not want and will not care for and love properly, that's the way I see it."

This is what i agree with but i feel as though there are parents that do want children and cant have them. I met a nice family in Ohio that was willing to adopt my daughter and legally compensate me but i chose to keep my daughter. I mean there are other options other than abortion. Im not pro-life. Smurf happens i understand that but when smurf keeps happening is what i have a hard time understanding and thank you.

Quoting The Doctor:" Yes, I understand. But, just as it's emotional for you, I'm sure it's emotional to many other women. Yaknow? Most of these get sent to TDC, despite how they're presented (from what I've seen)."

I agree.

Quoting proudlypreggers:" This is what i agree with but i feel as though there are parents that do want children and cant have ... [snip!] ... pro-life. Smurf happens i understand that but when smurf keeps happening is what i have a hard time understanding and thank you."

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Yay! Suddenly we're happy! Let's eat some cake  

Quoting Bethy-poodles:" Meh, you're all good. I'm overly grumpy due to the fact it feels as though my body has been run over by thirty semi-trucks. This pregnancy is not being nice to me. "

Suffering from a previa now..the ligament pains are the worse. right there witchya on the grumpy.