I fell pregnant at 15, my boyfriend being 17, when my boyfriends best friend announced him and his girlfriend were TTC, him being 17 and her being 15 aswell. My baby was not planned but i have nothing against them for TTC at that young age however i did think that they didnt think it threw, i kept my mouth shut though!
After me and the other girl turned 16 and my boyfriend and his best friend turned 18, the other girl fell pregnant - at first i was happy for them both...
Then the girl asked me when she would get her bump (she was like 10 weeks) and i told her mine became visiable at about 20 weeks whilst walking the streets and she was proper gutted because we were due to finish school 2/3 weeks later and she wanted her bump before she left! I have nothing against teen pregnancies but i dont see why she wanted to show her bump off at school - its not a fashion accsessory! I did everything to try cover my bump at school! Im not saying teenagers should try hide their bumps but i dont think they should want to show them off at school! But again, i bit my lip and just agreed.
Then she told me shes so glad shes having this baby because her boyfriend is going in the army which means she wont have to go to college because noone is there to have the baby!! Again, i have nothing against stat at home mums but the way she put this sounded like the baby was just an excuse so she didnt have to do anything else with her life...
My boyfriends best friend text him after their first scan because him and his girlfriend fell out and he didnt know what to do because she had told him that she was going to slit her wrists so both her and the baby would die... I thought this was really sick, its like she doesnt care for the baby at all! I honestly swear this baby was not origionally wanted and it gets me down that the baby is stuck in the middle of this relationship with a young mum thats threatening to kill herself and a dad that cant decide whether he wants to be there or not!
Hes already asked my boyfriend whether we would babysit when they argue and i was thinking we might as well adopt the kid since they argue all the time! Have the kid before you look for people to babysit! Throughout my pregnancy, the last thing i thought of was 'whos going to babysit when i need a break?'
Im sorry for ranting but i needed to get it out! My boyfriend tells me not to say anything but each time i see them, they say/do something that annoys me and i just feel like snapping at them!
It sounds like she's an idiot who is trying to trap the guy into marrying her. No 15 or 16 year old should be trying to get pregnant. I know it happens since I had my son at 15 but still actively trying in highschool is just stupid.
<blockquote><b>Quoting CuteExplodenKitties:</b>" It sounds like she's an idiot who is trying to trap the guy into marrying her. No 15 or 16 year old should ... [snip!] ... be trying to get pregnant. I know it happens since I had my son at 15 but still actively trying in highschool is just stupid. "</blockquote>
Agreed! The whole situation just annoys me so much-___-