With my XH I just told him we needed to talk and spilled my guts. It was awful, but I got it out. If you need a ear feel free to hit me up. I went through it all not to long ago.
Yeah he knows whats about to go down but I would probably walk by the tv turn it off say what I have to say give him a second to say something if nothing turn it back on amd continue to do what I was doing or write a letter
<blockquote><b>Quoting 1inpink2inblue:</b>" Thanks i might actually do that. i really don't have anyone to talk to which makes it even harder."</blockquote>
I know the feeling. I had no support from anyone. But now it's been a year and a half and things are so much better. I'm finally happy again, the kids are happier, and we get along and co parent pretty well. I will be here if you need someone.
Tomorrow can the kids go hang out somewhere while you talk to him? I was going to suggest writing a letter and telling him but then he might go off in front of the kids.