Quoting Brittany Felleti:" So, my mom insists that her and my grandmother are in the labor and delivery room when I give birth to ... [snip!] ... I just don't know how to tell my mom without her getting mad. I've hinted around to it and she's just not getting the hint?"
I was in the same boat with my mom.. Sorry but your just going to have to let her get mad. It's your delivery and your choice. I told my mom that i didn't want her to be in with me she was kind of bitter sweet but I did ask her to be on stand by incase I needed her. Once that baby gets here it will be a thing in the past.. I am the baby in my family and my mom said it's harder to just sit back when its your only daughter and your baby having the baby she feels like she has to be there to help them through it like she has my entire life it's just a moms natural instinct but after talking to her she understands that this is a time i need to let my hubby be there the most.