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Just because you're Christian doesn't mean you need to stay married to an ass.

Quoting ✿LilyBear09✿:" Just because you're Christian doesn't mean you need to stay married to an ass."

 
So true!

just because you are Christian does not mean you and your family deserve to deal with him being like that. If you are unhappy then you should do something about it. I wish you the best.

God would probably rather have you divorced and happy then married and mistreated. Just sayin.
Have u tried sitting down and having a conversation about this?

I know exactly how you feel. SO stays awake long enough to eat, just play with the kids for a hour or so(if that), and complain about me not doing something. That's when I tell him he couldn't even stand a few hours with the 2 kids without having to worry about anything else let alone all day while cleaning and fixing breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Plus I never get a full nights sleep even if DD sleeps good cause I have to make sure he wakes up for work on time at 3:30.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ✿LilyBear09✿:</b>" Just because you're Christian doesn't mean you need to stay married to an ass."</blockquote>


That's the only way I know to explain it. I mean i don't believe in divorce under most circumstances, but I don't know where my line is. I don't want my kids growing up with a drunk ads father. Yes he makes sure they have food, insurance, etc but they have to be around his drunk ads fits.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kya-skylar's mama.:</b>" God would probably rather have you divorced and happy then married and mistreated. Just sayin. Have u tried sitting down and having a conversation about this?"</blockquote>



Yes. We have done therapy and everything. He does better for a month or so and then its back to usual

So it sounds like you guys need to STAY in therapy. If you try and try and it still doesn't work then you might want to consider divorce. God won't be angry with you for that. You're just doing what's best for you and your children.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Coal Miners GF:</b>" I know exactly how you feel. SO stays awake long enough to eat, just play with the kids for a hour or ... [snip!] ... Plus I never get a full nights sleep even if DD sleeps good cause I have to make sure he wakes up for work on time at 3:30."</blockquote>



This is me. At least someone can relate

<blockquote><b>Quoting Raptor Jesus (TTC):</b>" So it sounds like you guys need to STAY in therapy. If you try and try and it still doesn't work then ... [snip!] ... might want to consider divorce. God won't be angry with you for that. You're just doing what's best for you and your children. "</blockquote>




Yea. I have a wonderful therapist. He's a big country guy that even dh can relate to, but its not working. I mean it helps for a few days but that's it