When you become a mother. . .

you should tone it down. Dressing wise. According to my husbands older sister, she believes when you become a mother you shouldn't dress 'so sexy'. My sisternlaw (the older one) got into a argument with my other sisternlaw about, that since she became a mother she shouldn't dress so sexy, like: mini skirts,short-shorts,very tight clothing, and revealing tops. Do you agree? D&D.

I wear short-shorts all the time.

I don't think becoming a mother means you can't wear any of your clothes that you wore before pregnancy. If you can still rock it, rock it!

Smurf no. I'm still a woman not just a mother. I can dress how ever I want.

I don't even wear "inappropriate" clothing and I still think that mentality is bull.

thats stupid
my mom told me i dont need my bellybutton peirced bc im a mom now 

um. well, not gonna lie, for a mother, ive kinda got a bangin' body, so i still dress pretty sexy.  

PFFFFFFFFFT.

I think dressing in low cut "sexy" tops ... Is just smurfing handy when you breastfeed.

And I still like to feel sexy. Sexy is different from "innapropriate". Wearing a sexy dress to a cocktail party is a lot different than rockin up with nipple tassles and body paint on. Depending on the kind of party

I still wear my short shorts, tank tops, nice shirts, nothing slutty but same stuff i wore before ever getting pregnant

Screw that...I'm a mother but I'm a woman first. If dressing sexy makes me feel good I'm doing it. Smurf I still got the body for it lol

Quoting PeanutButter[WAL]:" thats stupid my mom told me i dont need my bellybutton peirced bc im a mom now "

Exactly what my auntie told me too.

I think I look more like a woman now. There is a difference in looking like a woman and a whore, but at least now I don't look like a prepubescent boy.

Quoting PeanutButter[WAL]:" thats stupid my mom told me i dont need my bellybutton peirced bc im a mom now "

 

Quoting RetroMama:" PFFFFFFFFFT. I think dressing in low cut "sexy" tops ... Is just smurfing handy when you breastfeed. ... [snip!] ... to a cocktail party is a lot different than rockin up with nipple tassles and body paint on. Depending on the kind of party"

You ruin all my fun...lol

Quoting Sammi C.:" You ruin all my fun...lol"

Like I said ... Depending on the party   

Just because you're a mom doesn't mean you have to dress like a nun.

I don't see what the big deal is. I don't judge people or their parenting skills on how they dress. I'm a pretty conservative dresser but it's not because I'm a mom, it's because I prefer the clothes.