We've narrowed it down to these two - for the time being LOL

I like Joshua

I really like them both but i like Joshua better.

Joshua. the name Coltan has always reminded me of a horse.

The only problem that I am having with Joshua is I don't want people to call him JOSH. I don't like Josh. I like Joshua.  

Quoting Reezie421:" The only problem that I am having with Joshua is I don't want people to call him JOSH. I don't like Josh. I like Joshua.  "

Then you should go with Colton.

Quoting Reezie421:" The only problem that I am having with Joshua is I don't want people to call him JOSH. I don't like Josh. I like Joshua.  "

My husbands name is Joshua and only a few friends will call him Josh but everyone in his family calls him Joshua they don't let anyone call him Josh when their around lol

Quoting ~a girl and a boy~:" Then you should go with Colton. "

What's another middle name to go with Colton?

I like Colton.