Quoting Mr's&Family*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Adams Mommy:</b>" Honestly I would tell MIL that you do not ... [snip!] ... then yellow or green. We need everything for this baby (I got rid of all DD's stuff). There's only so much yellow I can handle!"
I did the same thing with DS. I donated everything because I did not plan on getting pregnant for a few years. Ya that didnt happen. I was opposite of you and wanted to keep the sex a surprise. Everyone no joke made fun of me. They told me I was ridiculous and just want to be difficult. It seriously hurt my feelings. DH and I were going to have a meet the baby party instead of a baby shower, and everyone was just terrible about it. that it ruined the joy of keeping it a secret. So i found out.