I'm a pregnant whore vent

You're SUCH a pregnant whore. I just want to burn all of your baby clothes. Whatever, now if I end up pregnant and jobless I can't get in trouble. -From my loving sister. She's also wished down syndrome upon the baby.
It's not like I've never had a job. I just quit a month before getting pregnant. That's just bad timing. I've been with my boyfriend for nine months. We're engaged and obviously planning to get married, hence the engagement. We're both HS graduates. He's still going to school and I'm looking at online classes. HOWEVER, my sister must see it as I had a crazy night out, got completely wasted, had sex with some stranger in an allyway and can't remember his face or name. That's what it feels like when she calls me a pregnant whore. I'm pregnant. That does NOT make me a whore. Family can be the harshest. It just bothers me that she says these things. She wouldn't ever dare look my baby in the face and say them to her when she gets here, so why say them at all?

I'm sorry.  

Perhaps she's venting herself and doesn't really believe those things. I'm sorry -- family stings more than strangers I think.

My sister is a thundersmurf and has said smurfed up stuff like that to me before. If this was on FB block her, ignore her. Sisters know EXACTLY what to say to hurt you.

thats so mean of her. shes prly just mad bc your 18 and just barley got into a realationship and already pregnant and getting married and she just sees it as too fast too soon and your young and most time ppl dont work out that have only been together for a little bit of time and get married and have kids

i would tell her to stfu and stay out ur business and be happy for you or get out ur life

Oh wow. I'm sorry hun. That's so smurfed up especially when family knows exactly what to say to hurt others. 

IMO, when females call other females whores, it usually out of jealousy. I know it hurts and it is hard, but try not to let it get under your skin. Your sister has a problem and needs to deal with it on her own(depending on age). If she is a preteen/young teen. Talk to her, if she will. Did you spend a lot of time with her before dating your fiance? Maybe she just feels left out. Possibly. I could be completely wrong...

No matter what, I wish the best of luck to you, your fiance and baby to be.  

I'd be telling your sister to grow the smurf up and worry about her own life, and to stay out of yours. She sounds like a spoiled little bitch, no offence.

ok wow, well that was completely unnecessary. Have yall always had a bad relationship or is this something new?

She's confused about the definition of "whore". Perhaps she is a whore herself.

Ignore her.

Thank you so much to everyone! I enjoy reading your responses. They help(: I don't need aggravation or any type of stress especially over something as dumb as this situation. You have all helped me laugh it off(: Thank you!

That she would call you that makes me sad for you....my sisters would never say that to me, no matter how angry....I can't imagine what possesses some ot be so mean and hurtful, especially to family.

I'm sorry to hear this. I was 17 when i got pregnant with my daughter. (She is now three) My sister had a similar reaction to what your sister had. Funny thing is, my sister was also 17 when she got pregnant with her daughter. She didn't call me a whore, but she did tell me I was stupid and ruined my life. I dont believe she meant the things she said because that would mean she thought her daughter ruined her life. My brother on the other hand did call me a whore and wouldn't talk to me through my entire pregnancy. A lot of my family was very hard on me. It wasn't until after i had her that those family members realized that my daughter had the opposite effect on my life then they thought. I proved them I am a good mother at 18 and they realized my daughter changed my life. I'm sure your sister will come around. I hope sooner then later. Even if it takes longer, don't let her get to you. you know what your going to do and one day she will realize that she was wrong. Stay strong!!

Thank you! I really do love all the support from BG members. It's nice when others can relate.