Quoting Meagan Hill:" Lately I have been wanting so much for my son's father to make an attempt at being a father for our son...I ... [snip!] ... miss not having his dad around. I just don't know how I can make his dad realize how much he's already missing in his sons life"
Why do you want someone in your sons life that doesnt want to be there? Your son isnt missing out on anything... except maybe missing out on being forced to be around someone he doesnt want.
It sucks the father isnt around but being forced to be there or be cornered into it is much worse for your son.