Quoting BB&B ♥:" Guys, only supportive comments are allowed in Abortion Survivors. Monitor yourselves. And I'm sorry ... [snip!] ... for the best. If it were me personally, I wouldn't want to know what the fetus looked like. It would be so hard to move on. "
I'm sorry, I just feel she could have said it a little more decently.
Maybe, "I was going to abort it"
"I wasn't going to be keeping the baby"
Just my thought on it.
But still yes, it is sad and it was probably for the better that they didn't give you a picture because yes it would be more hard to move on.