re: 7 months ago

Quoting BabyToutou:" My parents has him. My ex-boyfriend (JAcob's father) was abusive to me and he was stupid with babies ... [snip!] ... him away from me the second time he was hospitalized. My ex never showed up for court so he has no rights whatsoever to my son"

Oh my goodness, is he okay now?

Quoting BabyToutou:" My parents has him. My ex-boyfriend (JAcob's father) was abusive to me and he was stupid with babies ... [snip!] ... him away from me the second time he was hospitalized. My ex never showed up for court so he has no rights whatsoever to my son"

 

Quoting Mason's Momma ♥:" the way you say kill it makes me cringe"

   

I'm sorry you are going through a tough time OP. I saw you mention that Sam would leave if you kept the baby. Is Sam your bf or husband and if so he had a part in making that baby so why would he have left? I'm just curious that sounds immature and heartless of him. And of course you would be unstable. Look what you had to go through. He should go to counseling with you so he can be more aware of what you are going through. Is he being supportive towards you or just being indifferent about the whole thing?

http://www.prochoiceactionnetwork-canada.org/abortioninfo/misconce.shtml

Whenever I question things I love to look at this website. "There is no scientific consensus as to when human life begins. It is a matter of philosophic opinion or religious belief. Human life is a continuum---sperm and eggs are also alive, and represent potential human beings, but virtually all sperm and eggs are wasted. Also, two-thirds of human conceptions are spontaneously aborted by nature."

Quoting bb&b:" Oh my goodness, is he okay now? "

yes he is safe with my parents now I just wish I got to see him more often

Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:" I'm sorry you are going through a tough time OP. I saw you mention that Sam would leave if you kept the ... [snip!] ... more aware of what you are going through. Is he being supportive towards you or just being indifferent about the whole thing?"

He just tells me to forget about it and that I wasn't ready and that I don't have my own son so CPS may have taken away that one. He won't go to therapy, in his mind there is nothing wrong with him, it's all me. I mean I do have problems and it is my fault a lot of the time but I mean he freaks out over the stupidest things and he should change that if he wants to stay with me.

He is my boyfriend we have been together for about 2 years now and he acts as Jacobs father, Jacob loves him as his dad but still calls him Sam because we don't want to confuse him.

I've always told everyone that getting an abortion is messed up and that I would never do that, and here I am, an abortion survivor. I learned never to judge others because I may do the same thing if I was in their shoes.

Quoting BabyToutou:" He just tells me to forget about it and that I wasn't ready and that I don't have my own son so CPS ... [snip!] ... and here I am, an abortion survivor. I learned never to judge others because I may do the same thing if I was in their shoes."

I'm sure you do have problems after losing your son to CPS and all that but he should not blame everything on you. And how does he know you weren't ready to be a mom? Even though your son is in the care of your parents that dont mean CPS would have taken the new baby. I think when he said you arent ready he really meant he wasnt ready. I try never to judge people by what they do since it is their life and body. I also can't say I will never have an abortion other than if it would be life threatening for me to carry. I just hope things get better with you. But he needs to come to terms with his issues and stop denying he has any. Everyone has issues. No matter how big or small.