Quoting Heddur:" actually he is 50% yours and 50% his. if he doesnt have visitation appointed by the courts, and you're ... [snip!] ... fathe rin his life? If thats the case, then why put all of your time and energy in to making sure he doesnt get shared cutody? "
Quoting DisneyMommyTTC#3:" If your baby being tagged in a FB photo is the biggest issue you ever face parenting..............you ... [snip!] ... internet?) Really, who cares? How does it affect your life negatively? It is his child too. Dont use your child as a pawn."
Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:" No the biggest issue I'vehad is his DRUNK grandfather taking my baby into the woods unsupervised. And ... [snip!] ... BD thinks that's fine. "Oh well my dad was like that when we were growing up, and we turned out all right." No. no no no no no."
Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" That is not up to you to say "no,no,no no" to him. If you are sharing time, he can do whatever he want in that time. "
Quoting DisneyMommyTTC#3:" Listen sugar.........if you really think your son is not cared for properly while with him, have him ... [snip!] ... co-parenting relationship with your sons Bio-Father. BTW, i love the name Charlie, thats my 7 year old sons name as well. "