Frustration with SEX!

So my hubby has been frustrated with very little sex thru my pregnancy. I have had NO sex drive at all. So I am now making an effort to keep him happy. So here is the problem now...tonight I suprise him by just walking in the living room butt naked non-chalant and he goes crazy. Thats the response I was hoping for. So then we kinda play with each other, look at some porn play with the vibrating dildo you know just trying to really get things going for him and me which all worked we were ready to go. THEN...when he first pushed inside of me it hurt so freaking bad. I had my butt propped up on a few pillows and it just was not working. I have been swelling alot through my pregnancy even down there. Also, today I had a colposcopy (sp?) to look at my cervix which hurt like hell bc of the swelling. Needless to say due to the circumstances sex was just not working tonight. He lost his erection and I went dry as a bone. Very frustrating but I know it is just part of sex when your pregnant and things like that happen. But my husband thinks its him and he cant please me and feels like less of a man. I try explaining to him how very wrong he is but he dosent believe me and is beating himself up about it. Please reply if you have had ANY SIMILAR SEX PROBLEMS AT ALL so I can prove to him it IS NOT HIM!

tell him to watch this post and just wait to see all the responses he/you will get. Sex when you're pregnant is soo soo frustrating. If not for physical reasons, then mental. You are a swollen, fat host for a kicking infant. So needless to say..sometimes having sex doesn't work. As badly as you want it!!! I have gotten swollen down there too...it can sometimes leave you feeling less than sexy and kind of numb to be honest. Which in turn makes it harder to get stimulated.

It aint you! Clearly she likes having sex with you...look at her tummy. ;)

Try watching porn together but be wary of anything with "Barnyard" in the title.... You think there will be cute little animals to look at  on the sidelines but it is not like that at all 

Ummm nothing like that but jeez...you just had a colonoscopy, I mean come on now....

But the other night I was having crazy wild sex (see you're lucky, my situation is the other way around, I have to badger my bf into sex these days  ) and I was on top and I started to get these horrible stabbing pains in my side that led to BH contractions! I had to stop and then it got all dry down there and it was bad...but then my bf and I just did the whole *tmi* 69 thing and we were both ready to be back in action!!!

Your hormones are different and your body is necessarily wanting sex, it's a chemical process in the brain and your body has accomplished the mission of sex, you're pregnant. So different hormones and chemicals are now released...it's not him, it's more you, but not anything you have control over.

Quoting fukuana:“ tell him to watch this post and just wait to see all the responses he/you will get. Sex when you're pregnant ... [snip!] ... Which in turn makes it harder to get stimulated. It aint you! Clearly she likes having sex with you...look at her tummy. ;)”

AHHH I have a swollen vag sometimes too and I get really shy and feel like I have a fat Vjj, it totally kills it for me  

Quoting Nicole B:“ Try watching porn together but be wary of anything with "Barnyard" in the title.... You think there will be cute little animals to look at on the sidelines but it is not like that at all ”

Haha beasttube.com

Quoting fierce:“ Haha beasttube.com”

I'm frightened! 

Try www.meatspin.com  if you really want to have your eyes opened  

Quoting Nicole B:“ I'm frightened! Try www.meatspin.com if you really want to have your eyes opened ”

That's fuckin wrong!!! It took me 10spins to get the damn thing closed!!!

Peanut says hi to Cheeto! Very loudly (I assume the harder the kick the louder the voice...?)  

The first time I swelled up..I was freaked out. I called my mom and said "I think something is wrong with my crotch." I had no clue that happened. Luckily men dont seem to really care (theyre glad to be getting laid) but it is embarassing. Only a piece of the pie really...wen they get to see ALL of what happens down there.

Question for OP: Was he gentle and was there lube? Sometimes some slow start offs can work you into being more comfy with it.

Quoting fierce:“ That's fuckin wrong!!! It took me 10spins to get the damn thing closed!!! Peanut says hi to Cheeto! Very loudly (I assume the harder the kick the louder the voice...?)  ”

LMAO!!! I didn't know if you'd open it or not lol! Cheeto was happily playing but is asleep now! Aww Peanut is yelling! Too cute! Where's he kicking or is it random?

Quoting fierce:“ Ummm nothing like that but jeez...you just had a colonoscopy, I mean come on now.... But the other night ... [snip!] ... So different hormones and chemicals are now released...it's not him, it's more you, but not anything you have control over.”

Thanks for the replys! It actually wasnt a colonoscopy this was where they had to look at my cervix for abnormalities with a microspoce. It was horrendous. They had to spray all this junk on my cervix to look at it, just awful. Turned out to be nothing wrong though.

Quoting Nicole B:“ LMAO!!! I didn't know if you'd open it or not lol! Cheeto was happily playing but is asleep now! Aww Peanut is yelling! Too cute! Where's he kicking or is it random?”

All up in my lungs. It's so weird, I hate it because I have asthma and breathing issues and I get scared to go to sleep cause it gets too hard to breathe and I'm afraid I'll stop in my sleep and not wake up  . I have inhalers and a breathing machine but I don't like to use them because they speed up my heart rate which is fine but they're killer on Peanut's heart rate and I don't like that...actually the last one was just under my belly button. OUCH!!! Haha at least he moved. He's like "wtf mom you're making me look bad"

Quoting Texas Mama:“ Thanks for the replys! It actually wasnt a colonoscopy this was where they had to look at my cervix for ... [snip!] ... was horrendous. They had to spray all this junk on my cervix to look at it, just awful. Turned out to be nothing wrong though.”

Well I'm glad you're okay but I can't blame you for not wanting to get down and dirty after an exam...even I, "the horniest bitch ever" (according to my best friend) would need a break. And your dryness might be from whatever they sprayed you with...give your vag some time to get over the exam truama. Then be naked