Need some opinions..

Quoting Stephanie G. {2WW}:" I suggest a LONG engagement and couple's counseling. Why'd he get sent to jail for an argument?"

Quoting 1st1ontheway:" Dont move in yet. He may have changed for now but I'm guessing it's just the honey moon stage where he ... [snip!] ... screams don't move in. I really hope things get better for you but from personal experience it just gets worse from there."

That's exactly what I was thinking, about the honey moon stage. I'm not exactly expecting him to continue acting as wonderful as he is now, and from what my family is saying and from what people have said on here, neither do they. I'm just going to have to wait it out, and see what happens though. Maybe he'll prove everyone wrong, and it'll continue like this for a very long time, or maybe it won't. After typing all of that down and then going back over it, it kind of opens my eyes to what our relationship is- a tremendous mess. I'm thinking about talking to him about ending the engagement for us to just work on being around each other more often, that way we both can figure out what we really want in the long run.

Quoting WeenieMachine:" I would not have accepted his proposal after all that. It's a bandaid over a bullet wound. I would work ... [snip!] ... Honestly, it sounds like you're putting the cart before the horse and just sweeping your problems under the rug. Good luck."