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posted 25th Jul '12
Quoting reachingout:" I should plan on it. My sister just came out to visit. She fly back to where my mom lives and told my ... [snip!] ... it has to be planned. I should probably do that, while I'm there, hit up the ER and try to get some meds and a psych eval. "
That sounds great. Maybe your sister can come out until your mom can get out there?

If she can, then you can check into a facility and get some help.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York, New York
posted 25th Jul '12
Quoting reachingout:" I should plan on it. My sister just came out to visit. She fly back to where my mom lives and told my ... [snip!] ... it has to be planned. I should probably do that, while I'm there, hit up the ER and try to get some meds and a psych eval. "
Please talk to your mom about getting this going
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I have 2 kids & live in Ireland
posted 25th Jul '12
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I live in Japan
posted 25th Jul '12
Quoting reachingout:" I should plan on it. My sister just came out to visit. She fly back to where my mom lives and told my ... [snip!] ... it has to be planned. I should probably do that, while I'm there, hit up the ER and try to get some meds and a psych eval. "
See you have somebody who wants to help! Your doing alot better than most already.Things will be okay, just stop thinking about it and just go for the help asap! The sooner you do it the faster things will go back to normal, maybe even better! Chin up!
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 25th Jul '12
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I live in Japan
posted 25th Jul '12
Quoting reachingout:" She just came and left. She has to fly back to her state for school soon. I wish she would have been ... [snip!] ... would have been more supportive and less judgmental while she was here. She trashed my house and didn't pay for food or gas. "



Aw. Hunny. I know how hard it is when you're working and paying for everything yourself.

Did you mom give any idea of how long it could take for her to get out there? Is there anyway you could get a loan or have her loan you the money to fly out to her?
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York, New York
posted 25th Jul '12
Quoting reachingout:" I have thought about this! I am afraid if I ask that of them, that things may be very awkward afterwards. ... [snip!] ... awkward afterwards. Assuming I get better and go back to school and work. I want to keep them as our daycare and not spoil it."

By the sounds of it they sound like they would really do what they could do to ensure LO is safe and taken care of...
I would really consider asking them, that way by as early as tonight you could be getting some help and rest.
Just hang on to the thought that there is help out there and you don't have to suffer.
Your daughter needs you! Go get yourself some help please.
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I have 2 kids & live in Maryland
posted 25th Jul '12
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I live in Japan
posted 25th Jul '12
Quoting reachingout:" About a month is when she will be able to come, or have me come there. That's also about the same time I get student loans. I'm just about flat broke until then after bills are paid."

Hmm..

I'm not sure if you're religious... maybe there's a church or something of the like that you can get some free daytime counseling at?
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York, New York
posted 25th Jul '12
Check into an impatient program. I lost my brother to suicide. It's not the answer. Especially with kids.
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I have 1 child & live in Boston, Massachusetts
posted 25th Jul '12
OP, please let us know how you're doing.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York, New York
posted 25th Jul '12
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I live in Japan
posted 25th Jul '12
Quoting reachingout:" Got out of the house. Went to the doctors. Getting the depo shot tomorrow, god knows I need it, and ... [snip!] ... to lie to myself and pretend to be happy in a depressing situation. I want the situation to change, not my perspective of it. "
To get reach your goal you have to do something you've never done before so think positive and put your plan in action hope everything works out for the best & im glad you got help
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I have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 25th Jul '12
Quoting reachingout:" Got out of the house. Went to the doctors. Getting the depo shot tomorrow, god knows I need it, and ... [snip!] ... to lie to myself and pretend to be happy in a depressing situation. I want the situation to change, not my perspective of it. "

maybe work towards a short term goal?

Have you thought of saving to move a little closer to your family?
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in New York, New York
posted 27th Jul '12
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Can you take your LO to play groups?
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I live in Australia
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