re: Can ANYONE get raped?

Quoting ★Momma Dee★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" No, its not common sense. If ... [snip!] ... you would have common sense not to do it either. Would I excuse the rapist hell no there is no excuse when a woman says no."

You make me sick. Whether a girl is buck ass naked, strutting her stuff with no friends around at 3 am down an empty ally does NOT mean she put herself in any wrong position. The dick that decided to have sex with her without her consent is the ONLY thing wrong in that equation (or possibly public nudity). But alas, you are ALSO smurfing wrong for saying she is dressing like a slut. WHAT THE SmUrf IS WRONG WITH A GIRL WEARING WHAT SHE WANTS?!?!?! This is coming from a girl that wears baggy pants, Vans shoes, hoodies, tank tops, baseball cap, and seriously short hair where people say "Ew, you look like a dude." Thats cool, if I want to look like a DUDE I have a RIGHT. If a girl wants to wear a skirt up to her butt and her cleavage popping out, she has a RIGHT within the measures of the law (meaning no bare breasts in public, etc....). To say she can't ride the subway because oh some little bastard might smurfing rape her takes blame off of the rapist.... and puts it on her. NO.... it is ONLY the guys fault. You are victim blaming and it makes you look like a trailer park piece of trash that couldn't even attain her damn high school diploma.

What if someone raped YOU and said "You had this kind of shirt on, you looked like a SLUT, you DESERVED it, you should of known better for not looking like a SLUT." What if that rapist viewed you as a slut for one reason or another, justified it for his reason to rape you? Would you like that? Would you like someone tossing that aside and be all "Well if you didnt look so slutty to him and not be doing XYZ or ABC and enticing him, you wouldn't of gotten raped. Tough smurf, guess you kind of asked for it!"

Dont think you would like that.

Quoting ★Momma Dee★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" No, its not common sense. If ... [snip!] ... you would have common sense not to do it either. Would I excuse the rapist hell no there is no excuse when a woman says no."

My sister was raped when she snuck out at night to see her best friend. She had a child from it. I smurfing DARE you to victim blame her in front of me... it's not common sense for her to INTERRUPT her life and hide in fear because someone cant control their dick. It is common sense for men to keep their dicks in their pants unless a girl gives consent.

If anyone victim blamed my sister in front of me.... they wouldn't live to see the next smurfing day. You can damn well guarantee that.

Quoting кïnga:" I...just....Love you   lol"

I love anyone that doesn't victim blame.... so I love you  

Seriously, victim blaming is sick. Can you imagine if she had a daughter.... "Oh you were raped? That skirt is too short and made you look like a slut, what do you expect?" She may not say it, but she'd most likely think it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" This is "Debate and Discuss." If you aren't prepared do defend your answer, DONT post bullsmurf stuff. ... [snip!] ... Wear pasties and a g-string... that doesn't mean you enticed a rapist. That just means an smurf couldnt listen to "NO!""</blockquote>




Well if you don't like my IMO too bad don't sit here and say I'm posting bullsmurf. You can't sit here and tell me a prostitute is not wanted more than a a chick that is dressed and regular clothes and the rapist has easy access those girls. Hell if I pull put my iPad on the subway I'd my chances higher getting robbed on the subway yes and i know I know better than that. Is the robber wrong for robbing me yes he has no right to take my iPad away from me. Should I be the blame no, but I should be morecareful of my surroundings and know that my chances are higher of getting robbed if I pull it out. Like I said before I'm not saying a woman is to blame no matter how she's dressed, but if your dressed like a prostitute don't expect no attention.

<blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" I love anyone that doesn't victim blame.... so I love you   Seriously, victim blaming is sick. Can ... [snip!] ... That skirt is too short and made you look like a slut, what do you expect?" She may not say it, but she'd most likely think it."</blockquote>

I said nothing about a short skirt I think you need go back and read what I typed. I'm talking about bare skin hanging out boobs and ass cheeks hanging out. I would not allow my daughter to go out like that hell no not in my house.

NO woman asks for someone to take her dignity away. NO means NO, no matter how the woman is dressed or where she comes from. Like I said, women in Afghanistan that wear FACE COVERS and have NO skin showing are brutally raped on a daily basis. ANY woman can get raped and there is no REASONING behind it except for misfortune.

<blockquote><b>Quoting La Reggaetonista:</b>" NO woman asks for someone to take her dignity away. NO means NO, no matter how the woman is dressed or ... [snip!] ... showing are brutally raped on a daily basis. ANY woman can get raped and there is no REASONING behind it except for misfortune."</blockquote>




Yes I've said the something read back ANYWOMANn be raped. It sucks that happens to the women in Afghanstan it's really sad it's sad for any woman. All I'm saying it's wise to take precautions.

Quoting FroggysMommy:" My sister was raped when she snuck out at night to see her best friend. She had a child from it. I smurfing ... [snip!] ... victim blamed my sister in front of me.... they wouldn't live to see the next smurfing day. You can damn well guarantee that."

 

Im sorry to hear this.

Quoting ★Momma Dee★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" This is "Debate and Discuss." If you aren't ... [snip!] ... not saying a woman is to blame no matter how she's dressed, but if your dressed like a prostitute don't expect no attention."

I don't think your getting her point. And after all the information she posted, I think you would.

Quoting ★Momma Dee★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting La Reggaetonista:</b>" NO woman asks for someone to take her ... [snip!] ... that happens to the women in Afghanstan it's really sad it's sad for any woman. All I'm saying it's wise to take precautions."

Why do you automatically assume that prostitutes don't or that someone who dresses a little more "promiscuous" doesn't?

Quoting ★Momma Dee★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" This is "Debate and Discuss." If you aren't ... [snip!] ... not saying a woman is to blame no matter how she's dressed, but if your dressed like a prostitute don't expect no attention."

Like I said before... some rapists like the COLOR of peoples hair. You could be holding a baby, nursing a baby, look like a punk/raver/goth, be a teacher, a veterinarian, and the right rapist will say "Thats my THING, I want her because of THAT!" You could be wearing the right SHOES, ya know smurfing CONVERSE and he think "My first girlfriend wore those, mmmmm I want her!" It is NOT just scantily clad woman that entice rapists. It could be the color of your eyes to entice rapists. Most rapists, especially serial rapists, do not rape based on "That girl is wearing nothing, looks good, mmm I'm going to get that!" They go based on a "thing" such as something mentioned above. An eye color. A hat. A profession. An ACCENT. A girl in a freaking burka could be raped for petes sake... it is NOT a thing of just "easy" and "accessible" girls. I took an entire class on this in high school about these kinds of issues and we had guess what... actual rapists come to our school and tell us the REAL reasons people rape. Not "Little girl you are scantily clad!" its more like "Watch EVERY element of you, be safe in general, because there is a rapist out there that wants you for your hair/nails/lips/shoes/tone of voice/where you were born/the fact you are a virgin/your profession/etc..."

Get educated on this subject. You sorely need it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Momma Dee★:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Máthair Gruaig Gorm:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... to see some statistical proof of that."</blockquote> IMO don't need statistical proof it's common sense,so stop already."</blockquote>

It's not common sense. I've worked with advocacy and survivor groups quite s bit since my rape 8 years ago and it's pretty well known that there's no one trigger.

And, uh...."stop already?" That was my first response, so chill.

<blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" Like I said before... some rapists like the COLOR of peoples hair. You could be holding a baby, nursing ... [snip!] ... voice/where you were born/the fact you are a virgin/your profession/etc..." Get educated on this subject. You sorely need it."</blockquote>




Read back my last post of what ive been saying and its in caps,I'm done repeating myself myself thanks.

Quoting ★Momma Dee★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" Like I said before... some rapists like ... [snip!] ... Read back my last post of what ive been saying and its in caps,I'm done repeating myself myself thanks."

Then dont come in to d&d if you cant debate or discuss.

Quoting ★Momma Dee★:" <blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" Like I said before... some rapists like ... [snip!] ... Read back my last post of what ive been saying and its in caps,I'm done repeating myself myself thanks."

Then dont come in to d&d if you cant debate or discuss.