Not looking for judgement only advice

I have a 5 month old baby boy who was born at 30 weeks 6 days. i am FREAKING out because i have recently found out that i am 7 weeks pregnant with my 4th child yes 4TH CHILD!! seriously who has four kids?!?!?! well apparently me!( i love them all and im not complaining just shocked!!) anyways im Scared to death because i had pre-e which turned into eclampsia and hellp syndrome with my son just 5 short months ago! does anyone have any experience or know anyone who does with a situation like this? Im not crazy... i was on the nuva ring and Still got pregnant! Please give me any advice you have!!

No advice...but best of luck!

Quoting Trinityandbraydensmom:" I have a 5 month old baby boy who was born at 30 weeks 6 days. i am FREAKING out because i have recently ... [snip!] ... with a situation like this? Im not crazy... i was on the nuva ring and Still got pregnant! Please give me any advice you have!!"

Well...do you want to keep the baby? Not suggesting abortion or anything, but if you don't think you can handle having a back to back pregnancy, then there are other options.

Quoting iLL-Legal Alien T -8wks:" No advice...but best of luck!"

This.

a lot of people have 4 kids...my mom did, my SO's mom did. The doctor I work for has six. good luck.

If you don;t want to keep it then there's always abortion and adoption. If you do, then I don't know. Good luck either way.

my son was 2 months old when i found out i was pregnant again! i wanted another baby. it was a suprise but soo worth it. im due with my second one sept 16th 2012(: i wishh yuu the best of luck with everything... i had an emergency c-section with my first. back to back pregnancy arent funn they are painful.. how old are your other babies?

If its not going to kill me i deffinatly want to keep the baby! I mean if i go to the doctor and he says its going to kill me i have an important choice to make because its selfish of me to know i have a huge risk of dying when i have 3 happy healthy children who need me and love me!

My other two are 6 and a half and 2 and a half. Ill manage with 4 kids just scared im going to end up with the eclampsia again and end up on bedrest for half of my babys first year or worse

None here hun, good luck though!  

dont feel bad my friend is 26 and pregnant with her 5th. im not a bible thumper by an means but i do believe that everything happens for a reason . maybe you had your son earlier so this baby could come at a certain point in time. this baby could be someone that changes the world and needed to be born by a certain time to do it. you never know. the universe works in weird ways. =]

best of luck and i really hope everything goes well for you.

Quoting Trinityandbraydensmom:" I have a 5 month old baby boy who was born at 30 weeks 6 days. i am FREAKING out because i have recently ... [snip!] ... with a situation like this? Im not crazy... i was on the nuva ring and Still got pregnant! Please give me any advice you have!!"

I think that because you were taking precautions and STILL got pregnant, than this little baby was just meant to be!!! sent via God. I had high blood pressure problems and plenty of symptoms that greatly resembled pre e while pregnant with DD and my doctor just kept a very close eye on me, had me coming in twice a week. The doctors know what they're doing, and will take the best care of u and LO as possible... as far as 4 kids goes, that's just 4 little faces to love unconditionally and another sibling for the older ones to grow and bond with.

Quoting Trinityandbraydensmom:" If its not going to kill me i deffinatly want to keep the baby! I mean if i go to the doctor and he says ... [snip!] ... because its selfish of me to know i have a huge risk of dying when i have 3 happy healthy children who need me and love me!"

Well I do wish you the best of luck, and if it makes you feel any better, there have been women with the same number of kids who have found out that they were pregnant at their six week checkup.

Quoting Trinityandbraydensmom:" My other two are 6 and a half and 2 and a half. Ill manage with 4 kids just scared im going to end up with the eclampsia again and end up on bedrest for half of my babys first year or worse"

thats understandable. with my first my doctor induced me forever. my placenta abrupted i was bleeding to death. i was tryin to have my son natural. my body was contracting but not dilating. the farthest i got was 1.5cm. an i started bleeding we had to do an emergency c-section turns out his cord was around is neck! i was terrified to have this second one at first. my doctor told me im a high risk for uterine ruputure and for my placenta to abrupt again! so far everythings going great, juss have alot of pain where my scar is that it!!

Quoting Trinityandbraydensmom:" If its not going to kill me i deffinatly want to keep the baby! I mean if i go to the doctor and he says ... [snip!] ... because its selfish of me to know i have a huge risk of dying when i have 3 happy healthy children who need me and love me!"

i had pre e with my DD, i was told i will get it again this time aroundbut it will happen farther along and less severe , i was 34 w with dd, ill probably be 36 -37 this time and so and so forth will all my children i have. its just less severe each time.