what's the norm these days

How many dates with a new guy before you put out???

2.5

I think it depends on a lot of things, not just how many dates. With my XSO, I put out on our first date.

I'd also known him for 7 years.

Depends if you just met were friends before hand is he nice clean ect... Id personally wait till its monogamous

Uhhm.. one night stand. But then again that was 5 years and 2 pregnancies ago..
Things might have changed. lol

I did it as fast as same day... but I will wait until Im ready.

To be honest it all depends on how you two connect. There are some people that I dont care if I went on 10 dates I just wouldnt ever put out.

Eh it all depends on a lot of circumstances. I gave DH a hand job to in the backseat of his car on our second date. He asked me out the next day lol

Quoting Monster's Mommy:" Eh it all depends on a lot of circumstances. I gave DH a hand job to in the backseat of his car on our second date. He asked me out the next day lol "

must of been some hand job lmfao j/k j/k

Anyways, like everyone else says, depends on different things.
if you both want to though, go for it. lol

I knew my fiance for 2 years, dated him for 3 months before we had sex.
& My ex I knew for 4 months, & again dated for 3 months before having sex.

I wound up doing it the first date with mine, which was a first for me I usually have waited a bit. In my opinion I think whenever you feel comfortable, go for it.

Quoting MOMBiE; Chloe's Mommy *:" must of been some hand job lmfao j/k j/k Anyways, like everyone else says, depends on different things. if you both want to though, go for it. lol"

Haha we had known each other for four years prior to this and the next day at school was so awkward. He finally walked up to me sand said "uhh, how about we get together in a real relationship" and all I said is "why, you wanna get laid too? lol" and he blushed and said "no I like you"
Six years later here we are   lol

I used to be ashamed of how we got together but eh, I was sixteen and he was horny lol.

Quoting Monster's Mommy:" Haha we had known each other for four years prior to this and the next day at school was so awkward. ... [snip!] ... Six years later here we are   lol I used to be ashamed of how we got together but eh, I was sixteen and he was horny lol."

  Awe . lol
I think it was about 3 weeks before i did that for SO.
I dont remember how long .. but i do remember we wanted just about a month til we had sex... i feel stupid because i dont remember our very first time, like at all :X lol 5 years later, still together.. lol

Me and my SO got together on 5-21 we ended up sleeping together a week later. He told me he loved me 2 weeks after that. I've never felt a connection like I did with him. Still together now after 14 months.

Quoting MOMBiE; Chloe's Mommy *:"   Awe . lol I think it was about 3 weeks before i did that for SO. I dont remember how long .. but ... [snip!] ... we had sex... i feel stupid because i dont remember our very first time, like at all :X lol 5 years later, still together.. lol"

Aw that's cute   and off topic, but I love you AVI!