I really just don't know what to do..

I'm 17 and the father of my baby is 15. We broke up two days ago and since then all the has been doing is telling me stuff like how he wants to experement because I was the second girl he's had sex with, and all this other stuff and is completely stressing me out to the point where all I do is cry.. Can this all really harm my baby? I ask him to stop and he won't.. I'm to the point where I want to tell his father the stuff he is saying.. But it could just make everything so much worse.. Does anyone have any advise for me on this..

What does he mean by experiment?

I know its hard but stress is bad for both you & your baby. I'm so sorry everythings happening like that with the father but maybe he does need an older man to sit down with him & explain things. Even if you two arent together he could be supporting you better

Um, you guys broke up, he could experiment if he wants. That being said, he's 15, and is immature as it is. Does his family know you're pregnant? if all he is doing is stressing you out, then just stop talking to him, and only talk to him when it comes down to talk about the baby, then talk about the baby. dont talk about anything else

My advice is grow up. It sounds harsh but really, telling his dad? Dude, he's 15. It's natural he wants to experiment w/ other girls. You two are broken up. Focus on yourself, your child, your own life. Being clingy generally pushes away guys even more.

Stress can be bad yes, but it's not usually a life or death thing. We all stress as mothers I assure you. He's quite young, and not saying this to be mean but I wouldn't expect much from him in the way of fatherly behavior. I'd just focus on you and the baby and let him do as he pleases. It's not an easy thing but lots of girls and women do it every day without the father. Just do your best and think about your baby first and you will do just fine!  

When your upest or somethings wrong with you . your baby can feel it , and it can be hurtful towards him/her ..
sounds like your better off without him .
he needs to grow up , but goodluck !

Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:" My advice is grow up. It sounds harsh but really, telling his dad? Dude, he's 15. It's natural he wants ... [snip!] ... girls. You two are broken up. Focus on yourself, your child, your own life. Being clingy generally pushes away guys even more."

 



btw, i havent really been on since you had to restart... i missed your face on here.

sorry for getting off topic OP

Quoting £egendary Zeppelin:" My advice is grow up. It sounds harsh but really, telling his dad? Dude, he's 15. It's natural he wants ... [snip!] ... girls. You two are broken up. Focus on yourself, your child, your own life. Being clingy generally pushes away guys even more."

 
He's only 15, it sucks but the reality is that most teen parents don't stay together. I don't see any reason to tell his dad. I'm sorry you're dealing with a breakup but the important thing right now is your LO.

Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:"   btw, i havent really been on since you had to restart... i missed your face on here. sorry for getting off topic OP"

aw thanks   <3

Quoting Regina Phalange:"   He's only 15, it sucks but the reality is that most teen parents don't stay together. I don't see ... [snip!] ... I don't see any reason to tell his dad. I'm sorry you're dealing with a breakup but the important thing right now is your LO."

 

OP - I would ignore anything your BD says unless it has something to do with the baby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Regina Phalange:</b>"   He's only 15, it sucks but the reality is that most teen parents don't stay together. I don't see ... [snip!] ... I don't see any reason to tell his dad. I'm sorry you're dealing with a breakup but the important thing right now is your LO."</blockquote>


Most adult parents don't stay together either. Heh

Time to grow up. You have more important things to worry about than tattling on your ex for being a normal teenage boy.

His father does know. And I respect that your saying it's childish to tell his dad, bus seriously? His father could keep his son under control. But thanks. And for him to experiment.. I don't think that's fine. When he's still texting me and trying to "be" with me. And it wouldn't be my problem. But hes the one telling me this. And I'm not asking to hear any of it.

Quoting RetroMama:" What does he mean by experiment?"

Get stuff put in his butt.