advise plz.....

hi everyone.. im kina sad right now ihavent seen my bf in like a month and i am alost due to have my babay and i just really miss him.. I asked if he could come see me this weekend and he got all mad telling me he didnt knw?? I started to cry cus i just felt really bad and he just started yelling at me... i dont knw what to do?? Should i just end our relationship.. Its been like this 4 a while now...

Are you sure he still thinks youre his girlfriend? Not to sound mean...but it doesnt sound like he's in the relationship anymore.  

I wouldn't be calling him my boyfriend, if I was in that situation.

In fact, after the first week or two, I wouldn't be calling him my boyfriend.

What's a babay?

Quoting nvoytek:“ Are you sure he still thinks youre his girlfriend? Not to sound mean...but it doesnt sound like he's in the relationship anymore.  ”

well thats the thing.. I have told him that if he doesnt want to be with me its fine.. That i wont go all psycho gf on him... But as soon as i mention breaking up he starts either crying or thinking im cheating on him.. idk i guess he is just weird??...

Quoting Just........Corn Dog:“ What's a babay?”

sorry i meant for it to say baby...

Quoting Just........Corn Dog:“ What's a babay?”

It's close to a 'bay-bee'.

Quoting Sw3etzz:“ well thats the thing.. I have told him that if he doesnt want to be with me its fine.. That i wont go ... [snip!] ... But as soon as i mention breaking up he starts either crying or thinking im cheating on him.. idk i guess he is just weird??...”

Not that I'm saying that this is whats going on with your dude, but I was in a relationship like that where my boyfriend would disappear for weeks on end then show back up after the girl he was cheating on me me broke up with him. I was a side piece of ass and a safety net should he get ditched...sounds like this might be whats going on...  I'm sorry youre going through this, it sucked when I had to go through it.

Let him go. If he has no intention of 'being with you', your only disrespecting yourself by letting him yell at you and tell you "he doesnt know when hes going to see you". Sounds like a loser.

Quoting Just........Corn Dog:“ What's a babay?”

This made me laugh. 

Quoting nvoytek:“ Not that I'm saying that this is whats going on with your dude, but I was in a relationship like that ... [snip!] ... like this might be whats going on...  I'm sorry youre going through this, it sucked when I had to go through it.”

yeah it sucks and thats what i think to that maybe he just has me around for the baby or cus im just the alternative.... But i can do fine without him..thx.

Quoting Sw3etzz:“ yeah it sucks and thats what i think to that maybe he just has me around for the baby or cus im just the alternative.... But i can do fine without him..thx.”

I'm so sorry he's treating you like this. Its so unfair that some people think its alright to treat other people so badly. I just dont get it. I hope youre able to get the answers you need.

Quoting nvoytek:“ Not that I'm saying that this is whats going on with your dude, but I was in a relationship like that ... [snip!] ... like this might be whats going on...  I'm sorry youre going through this, it sucked when I had to go through it.”

Dude = some kind of animal penis. I'm not sure which one.
(comic relief)

Quoting nvoytek:“ I'm so sorry he's treating you like this. Its so unfair that some people think its alright to treat other people so badly. I just dont get it. I hope youre able to get the answers you need.”

Yeah it is horrible that ppl treat pll so badly...

Quoting Just........Corn Dog:“ Dude = some kind of animal penis. I'm not sure which one. (comic relief)”

I heard its a hair off an elephants butt..either way, I think men qualify as dudes. JMO