re: Are you on

Quoting Buffy♥:" It doesn't I guess. Just sucks you put yourself in this situation when in your past posts you clearly defended that you had money and would never need assistance. "

No I said I had money never said I would never need assistance people did not bring that up so why would I predict the future and say I would NEVER need assistance? just never have been on assistance

I have health issues I might at some point need even more assistance than even food stamps

O well if I do that is not anyone elses problem

I get money everymonth fixed income ..smurf happends I do not plan on this being long term but my situation last few weeks has not been great because of where I live

Quoting Whatsarahsaiid:" No I said I had money never said I would never need assistance people did not bring that up so why ... [snip!] ... happends I do not plan on this being long term but my situation last few weeks has not been great because of where I live"

No, you said you were financially stable to raise a child. To artificially inseminate yourself with your best friends sperm and raise a child. Obviously you weren't. Is he going to help you out at all?

Quoting Buffy♥:" Ugh, people like you make me so mad. Whatever, your life. Not mine."

You do not know me .. you are just coming off like a crazy person

tons of women have kids and get assitance lots of people w/o kids get some sort of assistance lots of women are pregnant and get assistance do you have an issues with all of them? do you know if they planned their babies or not?

it is there to help people I have money taken out of my damn check every month I am a tax payer ... so now that I need help I should starve based on the fact that I planned my child

bitch please ..take your nonsense elsewhere ..goodbye

and again hoping it will not be long term

<blockquote><b>Quoting Buffy♥:</b>" Ugh, people like you make me so mad. Whatever, your life. Not mine."</blockquote>




Don't worry I feel the same :-/

We ttc Lo and once we had her ahit went downhill but we never got on assistance or borrowed money from anyone. Now doing great again(after a cross country move or better work) and ttc #3 :-)


Op I get that things happen but diet you just find out you were pregnant? Obviously you must have known you need assistance before had *shrugs* bet of luck.

talk about a hater!

Quoting Buffy♥:" No, you said you were financially stable to raise a child. To artificially inseminate yourself with ... [snip!] ... inseminate yourself with your best friends sperm and raise a child. Obviously you weren't. Is he going to help you out at all?"

Again things happen... you act like everything is perfect and I did not know that thigns where I live would get like this ..

plain and simple not going to continue to argue with you about it none of this is your business worry about yourself

Quoting Maddy&belle'sMommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Buffy♥:</b>" Ugh, people like you make me so mad. Whatever, ... [snip!] ... diet you just find out you were pregnant? Obviously you must have known you need assistance before had *shrugs* bet of luck."

do not care if it makes you angry and no did not know things would get as they have where I live ...good for you for not seeking assistance but you are not going to make me feel bad sorry lol

bye

just use the ignore button OP best of luck to you.

Quoting Whatsarahsaiid:" You do not know me .. you are just coming off like a crazy person tons of women have kids and get assitance ... [snip!] ... fact that I planned my child bitch please ..take your nonsense elsewhere ..goodbye and again hoping it will not be long term"

I'm coming off as a crazy person for being annoyed that someone TTC a CHILD knowing they couldn't take care of it? Yeah. Totally. Especially someone that has sad she is depressed. The assistance is there for people and children that need it. Not there so you can plan to have babies and use it while sitting at home.

And yes, you get taxes taken out of a check that you don't even work for. Go you. Big props.

Why are you not working?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Whatsarahsaiid:</b>" do not care if it makes you angry and no did not know things would get as they have where I live ...good for you for not seeking assistance but you are not going to make me feel bad sorry lol bye"</blockquote>




Not trying to make you feel bad. It's your life idc what you do with it.

Just stating my opinion since its a public forum and I can do that.

Quoting Maddy&belle'sMommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Buffy♥:</b>" Ugh, people like you make me so mad. Whatever, ... [snip!] ... diet you just find out you were pregnant? Obviously you must have known you need assistance before had *shrugs* bet of luck."

No, that is completely different. Things went downhill AFTER you were already pregnant.

OP TTC'd as VIRGIN with NO JOB. Big difference.

Quoting Buffy♥:" I'm coming off as a crazy person for being annoyed that someone TTC a CHILD knowing they couldn't take ... [snip!] ... use it while sitting at home. And yes, you get taxes taken out of a check that you don't even work for. Go you. Big props."

still my money ... I am a tax payer have an issue with me getting foodstamps again not my issue!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Layla's Momma ♥:</b>" Why are you not working?"</blockquote>


Cause she I guess has a "medical issue" and collecting checks and assistance is easier than working for money??? That's my guess. :-/

Quoting Buffy♥:" No, that is completely different. Things went downhill AFTER you were already pregnant. OP TTC'd as VIRGIN with NO JOB. Big difference."

Again things changed at my apartment after yrs of living here RECENTLY

you do not know what you are talking about