Moving in??? Do or don't???
posted 23rd Jul '12
Just out of curiosity do you think it's right for a two teenage parents to move in to one for their houses together????
Say they're 15 and 17
quoteposted 23rd Jul '12
I say as long as its not my kids its none of my business.
quoteI have 1 child & live in
Texasposted 23rd Jul '12
Sure as long as its not into one of the parents basements. Want to act like an adult ?then quit playing house.
quoteposted 23rd Jul '12
It wouldn't make much of a difference, since they're obviously already having sex may as well sleep in the same room together so they can both get their asses up and take care of the kid.
quoteposted 23rd Jul '12
depends on the situation... i was 15 and my husband was 18 when we moved into my dad's house together... i had just found out i was pregnant and my mother was a druggie and abusive hence the reason i moved. and my husband (boyfriend at the time) well his mom and step dad bought a house with only 3 rooms, theirs and his 2 younger brothers and basically said sorry you can't move in... so of course my dad let him in, we got married when i turned 16 and we moved into our own apartment when i was 16 he was 19...
it really just depends on the situation like i said, if it was just for smurfs and giggles No not okay, but if they had nowhere to go i'd open my doors to them of course there would be strict rules...
quotesmurfs?I have 4 kids & live in
Idahoposted 23rd Jul '12
I would have to say no. No matter how mature and smart a basic 15 and 17yr olds think they are, they have no idea.
Can they manage jobs, school, a baby, housework, cooking, a relationship, finances TOGETHER???? Its a lot more work than what it seems. It usually doesn't turn out they way you would like it to.
quoteposted 23rd Jul '12
Quoting BrandyJ#3:" I would have to say no. No matter how mature and smart a basic 15 and 17yr olds think they are, they ... [snip!] ... finances TOGETHER???? Its a lot more work than what it seems. It usually doesn't turn out they way you would like it to."
This is true, i'm very thankful that it worked for us, with all odds stacked against us we have been married over 6 years ... it wasn't always easy but it definitely was worth it.
quoteI have 4 kids & live in
Idahoposted 23rd Jul '12
Not if either of them are my kids. I try my best not to dictate or offer an opinion on how other people should raise their kids.
But yeah, thats a really smurfing stupid idea.
quotesmurfs?I have 1 child & live in
Japanposted 23rd Jul '12
Quoting ☆ Katie ☆:" It wouldn't make much of a difference, since they're obviously already having sex may as well sleep in the same room together so they can both get their asses up and take care of the kid. "
Right....so that in 9 more months they will have two kids to wake up with.
quoteI have 1 child & live in
Japanposted 23rd Jul '12
I was living with my boyfriend while I was pregnant at 16. Then after I had my first son we moved in with my mom but then moved back in with his mom when my son was about 3 months old. A month after he turned 1 year old and I was finally 18 we moved out right away into our own place and haven't been back to living with a parent since and I think we've done fine. We never wanted to be living apart because we always wanted to have our family together.
quoteposted 23rd Jul '12
I think it's good for the baby to keep your little family together. me and my boyfriend go back and forth between our parents houses with the baby.
quoteposted 23rd Jul '12
Im a teen mom, im 17,
i had to grow up very fast my mom has ms and i had to look after mothering aspects around the house aswell as family i moved out at 15 i have been with the same man since i was 15, its a really tough life and i suggest you stay with your parents because they may or may not welcome you home again. and its really hard on a relationship it is completely different when you arent living together
quoteposted 23rd Jul '12
I live with my SO I moved in right before I got pregnant (at 15) and he was 17. Now we are 16 and 18 with a LO thats 6 months old(:,we're saving money so we dont have to live with his parents anymore though.....I don't think its a good idea and sometimes I wish my mom didnt let me but thats only cause every since I moved in we had to become adults and I just miss us having fun and being immature.
quoteposted 23rd Jul '12
Im 16 , my baby dad is 18 .
hes moving in with me !
so go for it , its your choice ..
quoteposted 25th Jul '12
Move in as you move in with him and his parents or him move in with you and your parents? I don't see a 15yr old and 17yr old being able to pay the bills that come with having their own place. Here, it would be impossible to even get your own apartment let alone a house.
quoteI have 1 child & live in
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