very sad face/miscarriage

Went into the E.R. last night because I was bleeding, suppose to be at the beginning of 9 weeks. Found out my little bean stopped growing at 6 weeks. I'm not bleeding anymore but they told me that if I don't pass the baby by Monday then I need to go see my OB. I am scheduled to see her anyway. Now I've heard of a D and C, is that what I will get? I'm really trying to prepare myself for what's to come so I can have some kind of an idea. Thanks, girls.

I lost my first baby at 8 weeks and I passed it on my own, no d&c needed. You probably dont need one. Try to think positive girl. Im truly sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry for your loss . If the baby doesn't pass on it's own they will do a D&C. That's what they did for mine. I wasn't in any pain after, but I was very tired.

I don't have any advice, I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss and I hope you can get through this!! ((HUGS))

I am so sorry for your loss hun.  

Quoting KKat:" Went into the E.R. last night because I was bleeding, suppose to be at the beginning of 9 weeks. Found ... [snip!] ... that what I will get? I'm really trying to prepare myself for what's to come so I can have some kind of an idea. Thanks, girls."

I'm so sorry i had a MC a few weeks ago at 12 weeks i know how horrible it is i'm sorry for your loss ... i waited to miscarry naturally, the bleeding started a few days after i found out the baby stopped growing. Alot of women handle miscarriage differently for some it's like a normal period others have bad cramps then theres women like me that have what i would describe as a sort of mini labour with contractions. You can wait it out and do it naturally or opt for a d&c (i tried to avoid d&c but i still have some leftover "endometrial debris" so if it doesn't go away with my next period i might need a d&c.

A D&C is what you get if you dont pass the baby on your own. You can also opt to have a D&C just so you dont have to wait for it to pass. That is what I did, i couldnt bear to wait   so sorry you are going through this.

Thanks everyonee for the support. I'm starting to bleed really heavily now and cramping super bad. At least now I can take some ibuprofen. This really smurfing sucks.

Quoting KKat:" Thanks everyonee for the support. I'm starting to bleed really heavily now and cramping super bad. At least now I can take some ibuprofen. This really smurfing sucks."

 

  I'm so sorry sweetheart.  

No...   I'm so sorry. I just want to hug you right now. *Hugs*

Oh no! I'm sorry for your loss mamma. Feel free to pm me if you need to talk

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" No...   I'm so sorry. I just want to hug you right now. *Hugs*"</blockquote>




Thanks hunny you're too sweet. I feel so stupid for even thinking that I thought I was feeling my baby move when it had already died ); I never ever thought I'd be the one to ever go through this. I smurfing hate it. I dont even know if I want another baby. I just can't stop crying and wondering about the what ifs :/

im so sorry for your loss darl,i know what you are going through as i am sure a lot of us on here do, its hard,scary ect,best of luck.....

I am so so sorry   I hope you have a super fast recovery