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posted 13th May
i need help on how to tell my dad and both sets of grandparents that im pregnant. one set is very religeous and the other set are from LA so they can be kinda critical and all. i dont know how to tell them. please help
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I'm due January 7th & live in North Carolina
posted 13th May
Well you pretty much just have to just "rip it off" like a band-aid
Its not like..they can tell you "no"
Sit them down...be firm and assertive and make sure you have an answer prepared for all the stuff they are going to ask you
If you come off as calm, confident, and mature...they will take it alot easier
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I have 1 child & live in St Louis, Missouri
posted 13th May
no matter what advice anyone gives you, it is still going to be hard to face your family and tell them if you believe that they won't be supportive. You have to build up your confidence and know that, although they may be critical of the choice that you made, it was yours to make, and that if they love you, no matter how upset they maybe initally, they are still your family, and you are bringing their grandchild/great grandchild into the world. If they are religious, then they know that they have no right to judge, only love, as the Bible says.But you have to be there for your baby no matter what, and they will have to realize it. Good luck.
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posted 13th May
goodluck telling them as scarey as it is now you will feel 239081230921830912 times better after you do..trust me..no one in my family was happy for me; just really really mean..but after they had time to think about it and i sent ultrasound pics; they came around   goodluck hunnn!
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I'm due November 6th (a girl) & live in Hudson, Florida
posted 13th May
Quoting Joes baby girl:“ i need help on how to tell my dad and both sets of grandparents that im pregnant. one set is very religeous ... [snip!] ... very religeous and the other set are from LA so they can be kinda critical and all. i dont know how to tell them. please help”
depends on how your family is.

like I joked about it with my family and they didn't believe me at first but after while they were okay with it.

maybe write a letter? email?
have your and your hubby/bf tell both sets together. Don't worry so much (eaiser to say than done) .
once the word is out, peoples reactions are said and done, the baby is the thing they will be happy about ;)

good luck!
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I have 1 child & live in Georgia
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