Relationship Issues During Pregnancy :/

Hi First Time Posting Here. Ugh At First My Fiance Was Excited About Our Baby. Now He Wont Even Come To A Doc Appt Claiming He Is Busy -_- WTF??? I Try To Explain To Him How Improtant It Is For Him To Be Apart Of These Experiences But He Doesn't See It That Way Obviously OMG He Pisses Me Off So Bad And I Love Him To Death But At The Rate We're Going Idk If I Can Take Being Emotional With No One To Turn To Anymore... What Should I Do Or More Importantly What Should We As A Couple Do?

Ok for one....Stop Typing Like This.... For another chill. Guys don't get that excited over this stuff or they lose that excitement quickly. I am sure he will be excited again once the baby gets here.

Quoting StarrMommy2Be:" Hi First Time Posting Here. Ugh At First My Fiance Was Excited About Our Baby. Now He Wont Even Come ... [snip!] ... Can Take Being Emotional With No One To Turn To Anymore... What Should I Do Or More Importantly What Should We As A Couple Do?"

If he doesn't want to go you really can't make him....

-_- I ask for advice and you comment on typing???? Lol smh ---> Thanks But No Thanks. =)

Quoting ßea:" If he doesn't want to go you really can't make him...."

Not Trying To Make Him But Im Just Saying It Would Be Nice If He Came.... Atleast Once

Quoting StarrMommy2Be:" -_- I ask for advice and you comment on typing???? Lol smh ---> Thanks But No Thanks. =)"

Stop acting like a brat, I see why he doesn't want to go to anything with you. If this is how you act over someone commenting on your typing I can only imagine how horrid you must be to deal with in real life. Suck it up and get over it. You procreated with that so deal with it.

Well, honestly... my fiance comes to the appointments but he's not all excited about having the baby and she'll be here in a month and a half. Guys are weird. I've been all excited every since I took a test and all she was was a little ball of cells. He's felt her kick and thinks it's weird. He's been to the ultrasounds and doesn't really say anything.

Wait til your baby is here. That's when things will change I bet=)

Quoting Nikki *33 weeks*:" Well, honestly... my fiance comes to the appointments but he's not all excited about having the baby ... [snip!] ... been to the ultrasounds and doesn't really say anything. Wait til your baby is here. That's when things will change I bet=)"

Thank you nikki! Its nice to get positive feed back =)

Quoting ßea:" Stop acting like a brat, I see why he doesn't want to go to anything with you. If this is how you act ... [snip!] ... imagine how horrid you must be to deal with in real life. Suck it up and get over it. You procreated with that so deal with it."

Calling me a brat for asking why my typing was important is ignorant please do not comment if you are a bitch! I came here for advice not an argument! Grow up i wonder how your kids will behave if you act this way ESPECIALLY when no one was speaking to you please remove yourself because you will not be replied to.

Quoting StarrMommy2Be:" Thank you nikki! Its nice to get positive feed back =)"

No problem=)

I said he's not all excited about having the baby... but I mean, he's just not as excited about it as I am. He is excited about her coming. But him and I both are in that stage where we're scared to death because the reality of it all has finally hit us.

Long story short, I definitely think it will get better when she's here. That's when guys usually start getting excited.=D

Quoting StarrMommy2Be:" -_- I ask for advice and you comment on typing???? Lol smh ---> Thanks But No Thanks. =)"

  it is annoying trying to read a post when someone types like an idiot and most people won't even try to read your post when you type like that. And I gave you advice it is not my fault you are to butt hurt over the typing comment to take it.

Quoting StarrMommy2Be:" Calling me a brat for asking why my typing was important is ignorant please do not comment if you ... [snip!] ... if you act this way ESPECIALLY when no one was speaking to you please remove yourself because you will not be replied to."

You just replied to her.....

Quoting Nikki *33 weeks*:" No problem=) I said he's not all excited about having the baby... but I mean, he's just not as excited ... [snip!] ... us. Long story short, I definitely think it will get better when she's here. That's when guys usually start getting excited.=D"

i hope he does i just thought that maybe if he actually saw an ultrasound with the baby moving and listening to the heartbeat? It would become more real to him so im def going to take your advice stop stressin my damn self and wait till my angel arrives =)

Quoting StarrMommy2Be:" i hope he does i just thought that maybe if he actually saw an ultrasound with the baby moving and ... [snip!] ... would become more real to him so im def going to take your advice stop stressin my damn self and wait till my angel arrives =)"

I thought the same thing. I had my first ultrasound at 7 weeks... I saw my little gummy bear and her heartbeat and I cried. And he just sat there like.. are we done yet? lol Then at 20 weeks he enjoyed that one a little more... but still wasn't all that thrilled. Then we had one at 31 weeks and he liked that one quite a bit because she was being funny. But the only thing he's really enjoyed so far is my boobs leaking, he thinks that's funny for some reason. And he also enjoyed our 3d ultrasound last week. Other than that, he's like eh whatever.

Id like to ask can only ADULTS reply to my topic. All the childish Bs is truly pathetic. This site is for mothers to get tips and advice not for grown women to argue. Sorry kids please remove yourselves from my post. Thanks