Quoting justme103:" well no I'd explain whoever it was. And be honest just like my mom was. And about the puppy comment. ... [snip!] ... her 'baby' many owners do but I don't baby my cat although I love her it's just not like having a child it's not a substitute."
Quoting La vie est Belle ♥:" babysitting and actually having kids are two completely different things."
Quoting ✿LilyBear09✿:" <blockquote><b>Quoting justme103:</b>" well I don't plan to go to college either way ... [snip!] ... it on a forum. You obviously didn't want an opinion because all you're doing is defending your position. Good luck to you."
Quoting justme103:" my only issue is my virginity and the fact that I don't want to have sex before 22. Also the standards ... [snip!] ... before 22. Also the standards I have. But, at same time, I want to have a child. That's really all that's stopping me... idk"
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" It takes so much more than you could ever imagine to be a mother. You don't get back 1/4th of the ... [snip!] ... so much with out a colledge education to make ends meat that you will probably hardly ever even get to see your kids right?"
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" If that is really all that is stopping you then you have far more serious issues that need addressed "
Quoting justme103:" well you said it in your post if ends didn't meet that's what I'd use. Likely though. There are these ... [snip!] ... Only bad thing is I might get smurfed up boobs but they're already messed up. So I'm not scared of the physicality of pregnancy."
Quoting Ryan Karlie:" Actually having a baby is a lot like a puppy. They pee and poop everywhere, you have to feed them and ... [snip!] ... is nothing like baby sitting. You can't give the kid back when it keeps you up all night and pours coffee on your lap top."