I'm thinking I should just dump his sorry ass!!!

I'm pissed at my Fiance because he doesnt want to try to find a job so I'm probably gonna break up with him before our daughter is born (in 7 weeks) because he doesnt want to do anything but play on his ps3 (that I bought him because his other one broke) all day and he expects me to pay all the bills, keep him out of jail, clean up after him and he wont even cut the grass thats almost 4 feet tall (but doesn't want me doing it) or try to get a job but if I'm not with him and pay his probation and everything then he'll go to jail and miss our daughter being born. I don't want her growing up without her dad (I did, I hated it & I don't want that for her) in her life and I don't want him in jail because I love him but I cant take paying for everything and him sitting on his ass anymore. I already know I'm gonna have to get a job after shes born (I'm also a full time high school student). but i know by staying with him im screwing myself over. I've given him since we found out I was pregnant in January to find a job but he doesn't even try and I've tried to talk to him multiple times about it and he just blows me off and doesn't care. I even pay for his phone and let go of mine for him!!!

Just ditch his ass now. No need to carry around his extra weight for any longer. You've waited far longer than I would have. Kick him to the curb and enjoy the next seven weeks without babying him. Time for him to learn to be a big boy on his own.

& how old is this boy?

the fact that he expects you to keep him out of jail would be enough for me.

I would much rather have no dad than a dad like that.

Let him go to jail. I would.

Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" & how old is this boy? the fact that he expects you to keep him out of jail would be enough for me."

He's 25 going to be 26 in November and I'm 18.

Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:" Let him go to jail. I would."

seriously. he's not doing anything else with his time, he might as well.

Quoting Sarah's Mommy:" I'm pissed at my Fiance because he doesnt want to try to find a job so I'm probably gonna break up with ... [snip!] ... him multiple times about it and he just blows me off and doesn't care. I even pay for his phone and let go of mine for him!!!"

Wow.. in the first sentence.. I read the words: jail, no job, and plays PS3 all day.


Ditch that fool like yesterday, mama! You seriously do not need that freeloading loser.

Pay his probation? my SO is on probation and I have never heard of such a thing.

Uh yeah, leave his dumb ass, now.

girl please I read the first few sentences and hes a sorry ass and your an enabler hell if you pay all my bills and buy me smurf I wouldn't get off my ass either. You have a child on the way stop giving him smurf

Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" seriously. he's not doing anything else with his time, he might as well."

     

Quoting Sarah's Mommy:" I'm pissed at my Fiance because he doesnt want to try to find a job so I'm probably gonna break up with ... [snip!] ... him multiple times about it and he just blows me off and doesn't care. I even pay for his phone and let go of mine for him!!!"

Sounds like you're already taking care of a baby.
Time for him to grow the smurf up. He helped you make a baby with you, he should help support her, and help you.
Tell him to step the smurf up, or get the smurf out.

Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" & how old is this boy? the fact that he expects you to keep him out of jail would be enough for me."

this is just about word for word what I was going to say.

having her dad around should be the last thing on your mind. you need to be happy to make her happy. kids know when their parents are miserable, and she wont blame you for not wanting to be with someone like that.

This guy is going no where in life. he's almost 26 and does absolutely nothing? awesome.

You know, the point of the fines that come when you get in trouble are not only to pay court/appointed lawyer fees, but also to teach people lessons. He's not learning anything if you're paying it. He's a sorry ass free loader.