It's just not right.

I want to keep this baby, but it's just not going to happen. This is what my SO just said to me, "I'm mad because you are truly dead-set on dragging me down with you. You couldn't just friggin set aside emotions and just be rational for two smurfing seconds".

I can't support another kid financially, I'm gonna screw up his life, things will be harder for my daughter and I. There's nothing I can do. Maybe one day someone will love me enough to give me another baby when I'm ready, but this just is not meant to be I guess.

Words cannot express the pain I feel right now.

Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" I want to keep this baby, but it's just not going to happen. This is what my SO just said to me, "I'm ... [snip!] ... give me another baby when I'm ready, but this just is not meant to be I guess. Words cannot express the pain I feel right now."

never let a man dictate your life .. especially when it comes to your children.. take it from me ... men come and go your children are your children.. good luck

Whatever you decide, make sure its your decision. Make sure its something YOU want to do, not what someone else wants you to do.

Best of luck to you & your family with whatever you decide.

He shouldn't be saying those things to you.    

Dragging him down with you? My gosh he sounds like a keeper, only.. not.

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Whatever you decide, it has to be your choice, not his. And not his choice through emotional black mail either.

If you're prepared to go through this alone then smurf what he thinks. He can sign his rights over.

Your SO sounds like a smurfing dick.

If YOU want an abortion, great, do it hun. I even know a message board for abortion support.

If it's HIS decision, smurf him. Do it on your own. You dont need him at all.

Please don't let him tell you what to do. If you honestly feel like its what you want; by all means do it. But don't do it just because he tells you.

My sister in law is going through the same exact thing as you and she's due the day after you. We keep telling her that it is her choice and that no one else can decide for her.

I want to keep this child. I can hardly support my daughter and myself. There's just no way to raise another baby. I will regret this forever and ever and ever, but I just don't see this working out. I give up at this point.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:</b>" I want to keep this child. I can hardly support my daughter and myself. There's just no way to raise ... [snip!] ... another baby. I will regret this forever and ever and ever, but I just don't see this working out. I give up at this point."</blockquote>




Maybe open adoption?

It's horrible I know and bash me all you want for this, but I have been PRAYING for God to take this child from me so I don't have to do this myself.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:</b>" It's horrible I know and bash me all you want for this, but I have been PRAYING for God to take this child from me so I don't have to do this myself."</blockquote>




That's normal, and no one will bash you in abortion survivors.

Quoting to mock a killingbird:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:</b>" I want to keep this child. I can ... [snip!] ... and ever and ever, but I just don't see this working out. I give up at this point."</blockquote> Maybe open adoption?"

If I keep the pregnancy, I am going to have a baby at the end. I'm not strong enough for that.

Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" I want to keep this child. I can hardly support my daughter and myself. There's just no way to raise ... [snip!] ... another baby. I will regret this forever and ever and ever, but I just don't see this working out. I give up at this point."

Things always end up working out in the end even when it seems impossible.

Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" I want to keep this child. I can hardly support my daughter and myself. There's just no way to raise ... [snip!] ... another baby. I will regret this forever and ever and ever, but I just don't see this working out. I give up at this point."

honey you cant predict the future ............you may be just fine in a year .. you never know ... i understand the fear but you shouldnt feel so bad about yourself on things you dont know....