Quoting Witty Whit™:" I think you need to resolve the issues within yourself before trying to extend a hand to someone else. ... [snip!] ... to someone else. IF you still havent fully accepted your own abortion how could you help her get through the aftermath of hers?"
I think I agree. I just feel bad because she needs me. She hasn't reached out quite yet, she's mentioned it a few times and sounds very sad and tired. She didn't agree with my decision when I made it either, but she was still there for me. I want to be there for her too.