pregnant with triplets, can only have one?

My positive home pregnancy test was a BIG surprise. I was on BC and I thought we were careful even aside from that, but I got pregnant anyway. So we started to deal with it.

At our first ultrasound we found out that there are three babies in there. THREE. Twins have run in my family in the past but I've never heard of triplets naturally. We are young. We are struggling as it is and we can only have one baby. It breaks my heart to have to give up the other two via adoption but it seems like the best option at this point. How do I choose "which baby" to take home? Do you visit with all of them? Do you tell the hospital to just give you one?

Idk, that would be hard. It'd be all or nothing for me.

 

Damn, I'd just give them all up for adoption. That's tough

I would never ever be able to pick one. It'd be either I take em all or I give em all up.

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" Idk, that would be hard. It'd be all or nothing for me."

It would be all for me. I feel that however many I fall pregnant with.. whether it be 8 or 1, that I was meant to parent each one, no matter how hard.

seriosuly. If you are thinking that then please do abortion. or give them ALL up for adoption.

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" Idk, that would be hard. It'd be all or nothing for me."

 

I'd probably give them all up. I don't know if I could pick one.

interesting first post.

I'm not sure how you pick. I guess pick 1,2 or 3 according to when they are delivered and keep that one.   I think I'd keep none if I couldnt keep them all.

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" Idk, that would be hard. It'd be all or nothing for me."

I am the same way!

just saw your dd, and its a little late for abortion. sorry.

No way I'd only keep 1