re: pregnant with triplets, can only have one?

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Can a person not sign up specifically to reach out to people? OMG this faker police smurf is annoying. What is wrong with you guys?"

!!!

I know right? Im sick of it.

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Can a person not sign up specifically to reach out to people? OMG this faker police smurf is annoying. What is wrong with you guys?"

yeah, and I'm sure this is one of those times.  

feel free to put me on ignore if I annoy you so badly.

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Can a person not sign up specifically to reach out to people? OMG this faker police smurf is annoying. What is wrong with you guys?"

 

Seriously. If you all think she is fake THEN MOVE THE SmUrf ON. You have no proof and you just look like smurfs.

Yikes. I think this would be more detrimental to the children than to you. Please don't separate them.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" !!! I know right? Im sick of it. "

Just ignore them. Seriously. It's stupid, don't give it attention. Arguing with them about it is a lose-lose situation.

If the person is real, it is taking away from her thread, if she is fake it is giving her exactly what she wants.

Quoting Amberchik78:" yeah, and I'm sure this is one of those times.   feel free to put me on ignore if I annoy you so badly."

How bout you stop trying to look cool by being a drama hungry smurf and smurfing leave.

Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" I would never ever be able to pick one. It'd be either I take em all or I give em all up. "

 

Not only is choosing horrible, but how would the other 2 feel knowing they werent 'good enough' to be 'the chosen one'

  its a horrible situation but personally i would abort or adopt out all 3

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-Lily:</b>" Can a person not sign up specifically to reach out to people? OMG this faker police smurf is annoying. What is wrong with you guys?"</blockquote>




This. Faker police, smurf off. She said nothing fishy, she needs smurfing advice.



OP, I can't help you. It'd be all or nothing for me. You're going to bond with all of,them, I doubt you'll be able to pick, i'm sorry  

If you need any help with anything, feel free to message me. Don't pay attention to the faker police, we're not all that stupid.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma~2~Mayleigh:</b>" It would be all for me. I feel that however many I fall pregnant with.. whether it be 8 or 1, that I was meant to parent each one, no matter how hard."</blockquote>


I say all or nothing. But honestly, in that situation I'd keep them all myself. I don't think there's anything wrong with adoption, but I couldn't do it at 18 with DS and I'm in a much better situation now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:</b>" How bout you stop trying to look cool by being a drama hungry smurf and smurfing leave. "</blockquote>




  

If she turns out to be fake oh smurfing well. FFS though the OP is not much to work with except the fact she seems to need help.

Quoting Manda♥Bella:"   Not only is choosing horrible, but how would the other 2 feel knowing they werent 'good enough' ... [snip!] ... they werent 'good enough' to be 'the chosen one'   its a horrible situation but personally i would abort or adopt out all 3"

I could never do it, never ever.
I can't imagine being in this situation.

I think that it's not horrible of her to separate them. I know that people think that triplets need to stay together, but I don't think that's the case.

I have twins and if I would have had twins again I would have only kept one. We could only handle one more. It's just like putting a singleton up for adoption. If 3 is too many then there is no shame in keeping what you can and adopting the rest out.

I would rather see a mother keep one and give it a great life, than struggle with 3. Financial problems contribute to divorce and depression, keeping all 3 could have a catastrophic effect on the OPs life.

I think it takes a strong woman to admit when she is taking on too much. Good on you OP for thinking of the children.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Beanz +2:</b>" Yikes. I think this would be more detrimental to the children than to you. Please don't separate them. "</blockquote>




This is what I was thinking about. If they find out when they're old,r how they'll feel. The ones that were put up.

Not trying to be mean but... I think I'd give them all up for adoption. There's no way I could just take home one baby.

My opinion? Either keep them all, or give them all up.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" just saw your dd, and its a little late for abortion. sorry. "

Um... never DDed? And this is my first post because I have been lurking while stewing over this information.