re: pregnant with triplets, can only have one?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:</b>" I would never ever be able to pick one. It'd be either I take em all or I give em all up. "</blockquote>




 

i would never be able to. i couldn't do it i would keep all 3 of them and make it work some how

Yea I would give them all up too. I don't know how they would be able to handle it when they got older knowing that you kept their brother/sister but gave them up instead.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer Casto:</b>" Idk, that would be hard. It'd be all or nothing for me."</blockquote>

!!!

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" Idk, that would be hard. It'd be all or nothing for me."

Yep! thats me... i couldn't choose one, if you give 2 up and keep one what if the other two come looking for you and they wonder why you chose that one of them. i would think it would mess with them mentally, especially god forbid one or both ended up not being adopted out and were bounced from foster home to foster home or got adopted by a horrible couple.. all or nothing would be me, i couldn't pick and choose.. way too difficult.. good luck w/whatever you choose.

Quoting Amberchik78:" interesting first post."

I thought the same thing lol.

Quoting pregnant with triplets...:" My positive home pregnancy test was a BIG surprise. I was on BC and I thought we were careful even aside ... [snip!] ... How do I choose "which baby" to take home? Do you visit with all of them? Do you tell the hospital to just give you one? "

Maybe pick the gender you want? Or take the smallest baby (that way you can BF and help it thrive). See if you feel a special connection for one of them?

It's a hard choice.

Quoting Amberchik78:" interesting first post."

It is, I'm glad she is reaching out for help and advice.

That is really really complicated.
i wouldnt be able to pick either. All or nothing for me too.

My main concern is what the chidren would think when they got older.

Quoting pregnant with triplets...:" My positive home pregnancy test was a BIG surprise. I was on BC and I thought we were careful even aside ... [snip!] ... How do I choose "which baby" to take home? Do you visit with all of them? Do you tell the hospital to just give you one? "

No offense but I wouldn't be able to pick just one... 3 is a handful but there are programs & assistance organizations to help with childcare. Its ridiculous IMO to have to pick one. I'd give them all up if I had the mindset of I HAD to pick just one for financial conveinence. You said twins run in your family, would you have given up one of them too? Its a hard situation & I hope the best for you

come on, guys. She's been a member for 10 minutes....

Quoting Amberchik78:" come on, guys. She's been a member for 10 minutes...."

Can a person not sign up specifically to reach out to people?
OMG this faker police smurf is annoying. What is wrong with you guys?

For me it would be all or none. There are orginizations and such that can help women who have suprise cases of large multipules. Also churchs and stuff often will do donation to help.

Seriously people? Who gives a smurf if it's her first post. I swear to god some of you are just smurfing drama hungry bitches trying to be cool. God forbid someone actually go through something tough and reach out for advice.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amberchik78:</b>" come on, guys. She's been a member for 10 minutes...."</blockquote>




Ok and that doesn't always mean anything! Sorry her first post doesn't match up to what you think it should.