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i think the "if i leave him, who will love him the way i did?" thing is selfish. if you don't love him that way now, and aren't going to, then give him the opportunity to find that for himself again. i think it sounds more like you don't want to leave him because you're worried about finding someone who will love YOU that way again.... sorry. not trying to be rude, but just trying to help you realize that the truth and leaving an unhappy relationship is better in the long run. hope it works out for you!

your worried about another woman not loving him like you love him? But you dont love him anymore, so you should leave, he will pick up the pieces and move on, and someone will LOVE him completly some day!

Quoting mommy; ♥:" I started feeling like my relationship was going down hill in January. I stayed with my dad for a week ... [snip!] ... how to do this let alone talk to him. Or even leave him for that matter. Has anyone ever felt this or am I being ridiculous."

Look I felt the way you do for quite a while. I can't tell you "it'll get better" because it may or may not. If you don't have any will left to try, then chances are it's too late. I had an extreme hormonal imbalance that was causing the good majority of my marital issues, going on medication and seeking out couples therapy turned our marriage around. In the end you BOTH deserve to be happy. Do what it takes to make that happen, whether it's staying together, or parting ways.

All relationships have their ups and downs. I would say make sure you have exhausted all of your options in your relationship before you decide to call it quits for good. Sometimes in the end the only thing to do is go your seperate ways but make sure that is really what you want to do. You dont want to regret it later.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ricky&Emma's Mommy:</b>" your worried about another woman not loving him like you love him? But you dont love him anymore, so ... [snip!] ... love him anymore, so you should leave, he will pick up the pieces and move on, and someone will LOVE him completly some day!"</blockquote>


I honestly don't know how to say what I meant about who will love him. Its complicated what I feel.

Quoting mommy; ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ricky&Emma's Mommy:</b>" your worried about another woman not ... [snip!] ... day!"</blockquote> I honestly don't know how to say what I meant about who will love him. Its complicated what I feel."

I get it...relationships are hardly EVER just black and white!
I have been with SO for 10 years some of which where the longest years I have ever lived, and I thought for sure we had exhausted all outlets and that I was for every extent of the word exhausted. Mentally, phyically, emotionally, just spent, but we always came out on the other end, still together, and still by gods good grace in tacked.
I know you probably think you have over thought every possible scenario regarding your relationship, but if you are scared to let him go, DONT because when you figure it out, it could be to late,
BUT, if you are 100% sure then leave, you will be doing the best thing for you and for him as hard as it maybe right now, things will get better...