re: I have no idea what to do!

Quoting Samantha10.31.08:“ I'm 20 and he's 19. A lot of it I know is because of how young we are and that this wasn't planned ... [snip!] ... and I just wish that everyone had that attitude, of course I know not everybody will think like that...but it would be AMAZING!”

I am 20 also. Mine wasnt planned either and things were so emotional at first. My boyfriend actually found out he had another kid right when we found out i was pregnant. Turned out she was an unfit mother and now he has full custody of the kid. A lot of people thought that i got pregnant on purpose, even my boyfriend did at first. After time goes by it gets better. My boyfriend has started to be more involved and even helps me think of names.

I sure hope that that's the way things end up with me and my boyfriend. He's never accused me of doing it on purpose, and nobody else has said anything like that, that I know of. But he did help me pick out some names...and we've decided on a few for choices together. I just hope this is a phase!


By the way...Thank you EVERYONE...you all don't know me but you're all so very nice and supportive, so thank you VERY MUCH!  

Quoting Samantha10.31.08:“ I sure hope that that's the way things end up with me and my boyfriend. He's never accused me of doing ... [snip!] ... By the way...Thank you EVERYONE...you all don't know me but you're all so very nice and supportive, so thank you VERY MUCH!  ”

Let's us know how everything turns out :]. I hope she comes around.

Man that's crazy, my inlaws didn't start being assholes until we told them we were getting married. That sucks dude...
Babies change everything though... hopefully they'll put their pettiness aside and suck it the hell up. Some people are just so unreasonable... and PATHETIC.

Good luck! If they don't come around... EFF em! You don't need that toxic environment right now.