GRRRR :/

So my LO is a big time mama's boy he will not go with anyone not even his dad. So yesterday we when to my in-laws and i handed my son to my MIL,FIL,SIL and BIL he cried and screamed with all of them and they each keep and handing him back to because he would not stop.so i was in the other room saying by to my SIL and BIL and when it was time to say by to my MIL and FIL i walked in to the room and my MIL told me "So your FIL said you need to just let Angelo cry and scream when he is with other people so he get's use to being help by other people and not just you" I didn't know what to say i just looked at them and told them we are leaving. But they don't know when we are home i try and try to let my SO hold him so LO get's use to him and i let him cry and scream for a while then when i see that he wont stop i go get him. My In-Laws act like i'm not even trying . I' just want my SO to be able to hold his son first and then work on letting other people hold him.

What do you think i should do and say?


Oh yeah and when i was holding my LO and he was sleeping my FIL came in and started putting his damn finger in my LO ear that rubbing his head all hard my FIL love's to pick on my kids till they get pissed off and starts crying..THAT PISSES ME OFF BAD: 

ignore them. they suck, esp your FIL if he's intentionally picking on your LO. It's a stage that your son will grow out of.