sex? like tonight?
posted 12th May
I use to be a total nympho. I mean couldn't keep my hands off my man, even after 3 years. Now i find i could be classified as a virgin again. I'm six months pregnant, and have absolutely no desire in sexual activity at all. However i feel really bad for my dear patient jeremy. He totally understands cause if i'm not throwing up, i'm just plain to exhausted and the act of it, hurts. However he is more irirtable, about the small stuff, and it gets frustrating day in and day out. Is this where a baby moon would come in handy? He's told me its not the sex he misses so much its the emotional part of it. The feeling of being needed. Is this normal with any other woman out there? Going from sex-fine to anti touching? And all the Pain, even after lube?
quoteposted 12th May
I know exactly what you mean, in the past week I've gotten to the point that sex just bugs me! It hurts, and just is so uncomfotable lately. My bf gets mad cause he thinks it's because I'm not satisfied, but he doesn't get the point that I just have no desire for sex period.
quoteposted 12th May
im the exact opposite. Im the one who gets frustrated and hes the ne who says...just wait until Emmalee is born plz....GOD!!!
quoteposted 12th May
Omg I know exactely how you feel!!!! I had a bit over 2 years being with my man. We were just crazy. I mean it was 2 or 3 times a day. Then I just didnt want anything. I mean I did itso he wouldnt feel bad. But it was more like once a week. Now I'm 24 weeks and I'm kinda getting over that. But He still wants me to be with him 2 or 3 times. For me once a day is more than enough. Especially since I work and he doesnt, It's way too tiring for me. He just doesnt understand me. He told me last week (crying) that if it was that I didnt love him anymore, If I'm seeing someone else because I dont want to be touched at night. I felt bad. I hope when I have my baby I have more desire for him, especially since it wasn't planned. We would do it everyday and then boom pregnant and dont want to do it with you.
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hee hee don't feel bad. I used to be the same way too, all sex carzy. we we're even freaky and do shit in public lol. Now I have absolutely no desire and everyone keeps telling me oh pregnant woman get really horny and blah blah but not me. I feel bad to because i've depreived my man too
quoteposted 12th May
LMAO...it's been a whole month of no sex for me. I feel bad too sometimes because my poor hubby has to go without, but he is always telling me that he understands and still treets me like a queen. =)
It's not so much the pain factor for me...it's just too exhausting and annoying with my nearly full-term belly in the way of EVERYTHING.
Makes me wonder if I'll be up for sex when I'm ready to attempt to induce if the little guy is too stubborn to come on time. lol.
quoteposted 12th May
Ok my issue is that I was and still am a nymph but for some damn reason I cant have the orgasm at all. when i was preggo with my son thats when the big O was the BOMB! What the hell? No matter what he does I never get wet so we buy lube (omg my 1st time). It just aint happening. Im 30 weeks now. It has gotten old fast. I've had like 3 or 4 orgasms since pregnancy. HELP!!
quoteposted 13th May
WOW! thanks to everyone who responded! it sounds silly but i dont feel so alone anymore! i feel more normal, i'm like most of you, i thought i was suppose to want it 24:7. Thanks to everyone who responded! and taking the time to read about my situation, which sounds so much like everyonesles! I wish and hope for the best for all of you and your little ones!
quoteposted 13th May
i completely undersatnd, i was the same way then seems like the second the test says positive i turned sex off, then after my baby was born and my hubby came home it turned right back on for a while.
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