Mom Drama.(vent)

So my mom has really been getting on my nerves lately.
But,what else is new,right ?
If you have read my previous posts about her,then you're really gonna love this one.
My son is in his terrible twos,about to be terrible three's,so I'm really cracking down on the discipline thing,which is happening alot lately.
I use the time-out method,& spank him if he gets up,or refuses to listen.She claims I'm "beating" him & I'm mean to him.I've tried talking to her about it but she takes everything the wrong way.I know that I'm a great mom & that I do not beat my child.She thinks that just because I'm trying to discipline him so he isn't a spoiled brat means I'm hateful.
She has even went as far to say that I'm nicer to my boyfriend than I am to him.
And just to inform you ladies on something,She left me with my dad while she ran off to cheat with the man she is married to now.So I really don't think she has any right at all to say things like that to me when she is far worse.I do not leave my child here,I don't even go anywhere ! She bitches at me everytime I ask her to babysit so me & my boyfriend can go out to dinner or something.We never have any alone time together unless we're here & they're both at work.
I just really feel like she is being verbally abusive to me.
She even made the comment a few times that she would rather be stay here and clean her house than to go out and be on my own.
I think she is just trying to keep me here & make me feel like a worthless human being.
I'm just so fed up.
And on top of all this drama,I've been waiting since March for my stepdad to take his trailer to lynchburg to pick up my car so I can drive.And best believe that as soon as I secure a job,me & Jeremiah are OUT !
thanks for reading  

Well it's her home, and some people think that spanking is abuse. Just be careful because she could call CPS on you for child abuse.

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Well it's her home, and some people think that spanking is abuse. Just be careful because she could call CPS on you for child abuse."

She used to chase me around the yard with a switch growing up,It's not abuse to her.She just doesn't want me to discipline him in any way.She thinks that it's okay for him to be a spoiled rotten brat.

Quoting tiƒƒαηy☮:" So my mom has really been getting on my nerves lately. But,what else is new,right ? If you have read ... [snip!] ... up my car so I can drive.And best believe that as soon as I secure a job,me & Jeremiah are OUT ! thanks for reading  "

I do not think that spanking is a justifiable punishment at all , but each to there own I guess.

No offense but complaining that you and your boyfriend don't get any alone time when you live in someone else's house, sounds insane.

Quoting tiƒƒαηy☮:" She used to chase me around the yard with a switch growing up,It's not abuse to her.She just doesn't ... [snip!] ... to her.She just doesn't want me to discipline him in any way.She thinks that it's okay for him to be a spoiled rotten brat."

People change.

You are in HER home. Deal with it.

Also, she has every right to complain about babysitting. It's not her responsibility to babysit so you can have alone time BECAUSE you never get alone time BECAUSE she is kind enough to let you live in her home.

Well, some people do think spanking is abuse, that's just life lol.

Quoting That-Girl:" I do not think that spanking is a justifiable punishment at all , but each to there own I guess. ... [snip!] ... but complaining that you and your boyfriend don't get any alone time when you live in someone else's house, sounds insane."

I don't spank him all the time.I put him in time out & give him many warnings first. & that's not the point of my rant,the point is,I'm not allowed to leave this house.for any reason,what so ever.I'm not even allowed to have a job or go to school because she would rather I stay in this house cleaning up after her & her husband all the time.

Quoting Chim Richalds:" You are in HER home. Deal with it. Also, she has every right to complain about babysitting. It's not ... [snip!] ... to babysit so you can have alone time BECAUSE you never get alone time BECAUSE she is kind enough to let you live in her home."

Oh, I didn't even read her entire thread to get this far.. *woops*

OP: that's ridiculous. They are not live in baby sitters, pay someone to babysit.

Spanking as a form of discipline does not equal beating. She needs to keep her mouth shut about how you are disciplining your child. It does not matter that it is her house because that is your child. Discipline should be left solely up to you and your boyfriend.

Quoting tiƒƒαηy☮:" I don't spank him all the time.I put him in time out & give him many warnings first. & that's ... [snip!] ... have a job or go to school because she would rather I stay in this house cleaning up after her & her husband all the time."

People mellow out when they grow older. People learn from their mistakes. How does she enforce you not getting a job?

Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Oh, I didn't even read her entire thread to get this far.. *woops* OP: that's ridiculous. They are not live in baby sitters, pay someone to babysit."

I can't pay someone to babysit when I'm not even allowed to have a job !

Quoting tiƒƒαηy☮:" I can't pay someone to babysit when I'm not even allowed to have a job !"

That sounds like bologna to me, seriously. You're an adult you are capable of going out and getting a job. There is no possible way that anyone could stop you.
You can't expect them to babysit all because you live under the same roof, they are not the childs parent. You are.

You seem to have excuses for everything, but good luck.

Quoting Chim Richalds:" People mellow out when they grow older. People learn from their mistakes. How does she enforce you not getting a job?"

She will not help me get my car up here so I can drive,& she has said that she would rather me stay home and clean her house and wash the clothes.I swear I feel like Cinderella.I'm going stir crazy sitting here with nothing to do ! I feel like I'm not getting anywhere in my life & she refuses to help in any way ! I'm not even thanked for anything that i do.I cook dinner,wash dishes,do their laundry,clean their house,& all they do is complain about me and everything that I do ! All I asked was for some help to get my car so I can get a job & move out :/

I smack my kids ass when he needs it. that time out smurf dont smurfing work. I sit him in the chair and then two seconds later he off it doing the same smurf. oh and I live with my mom and shes the main reason why he don't smurfing listen. I'm not even allowed to raise my voice infront of him even tho hes doing something bad. but she can. OP save up money and get the smurf outa there.